翻译一篇英语文章«HowtoLoveYourChildren»Students'spressuresometimescomesfromtheirparents,Mostparentsarewellmeaning,butsomeofthemare'tveryhelpfulwiththeproblemstheirsonsanddaughtershaveinadustingtocollege,a

　　翻译一篇英语文章«HowtoLoveYourChildren»

　　Students'spressuresometimescomesfromtheirparents,Mostparentsarewellmeaning,butsomeofthemare'tveryhelpfulwiththeproblemstheirsonsanddaughtershaveinadustingtocollege,andafewofthemseemtogoouttheirwaytoaddtotheirchildrendifficulties.Foronething,parentsareoftennotawareofthekindsofproblemstheirchildrenface.Theydon'trealizethatthecompetitioniskeenerthattherequiredstandardsofworkarehigher,andthattheirchildrenmaynotbepreparedforthechange.AccustomedtoseeingA'sandB'sonhighschoolreportcards,theymaybeupsetwhentheirchildren'sfirstsemestercollegegradesarebelowthatlevel,Attheirkindest,theymaygentlyinquirewhyJohnorMaryisn'tdoingbetter,whetherheorsheistryingashardasheorshecould,andsoon.andtheirworst,theymaythreatentotaketheirchildrenoutofcollege,orcutofffunds.Sometimesparentsregardtheirchildrenasextensionsofthemselvesandthinkitonlyrightandnaturalthatthtydeterminewhattheirchildrendowiththeirlives.Intheirinvolvementandindentificationwiththeirchildren,theyforgetthateveryoneisdifferentandthateachpersonmustdevelopinhisorherownway,Theyforgetthattheirchildren,whoarenowyoungadults,mustbetheonesresponsibleforwhattheydoorwhattheyare.