阅读理解Inbringingupchildreneveryparentwatcheseagerlythechild'sacquisition(获得)ofeachnewskill-thefirstspokenwordsthefirstindependentstepsorthebeginningofreadingandwriting.Itisoftentemptin
阅读理解
Inbringingupchildreneveryparentwatcheseagerlythechild'sacquisition(获得)ofeachnewskill-thefirstspokenwordsthefirstindependentstepsorthebeginningofreadingandwriting.Itisoftentemptingtohurrythechildbeyondhisnaturallearningratebutthiscansetupdangerousfeelingsoffailureandstatesofworryinthechild.Thismighthappenatanystage.Ababymaybeforcedtouseatoilettooearlyayoungchildmaybeencouragedtolearntoreadbeforeheknowsthemeaningofthewordshereads.Ontheotherhandthoughifachildisleftalonetoomuchorwithoutanylearningopportunitiesheloseshisnaturalenthusiasm(eagerness)forlifeandhisdesiretofindoutnewthingsforhimself.
Parentsvarygreatlyintheirdegreeofstrictnesstowardstheirchildren.Somemaybeespeciallystrictinmoneymatters.Othersaresevereovertimesofcominghomeatnightorpunctuality(准时)formeals.Ingeneralthecontrolsimposedrepresenttheneedsoftheparentsandthevaluesofthecommunityasmuchasthechildren'shappiness.
Asregardsthedevelopmentofmoralstandardsinthegrowingchildconsistency(一惯性)isveryimportantteaching.Toforbidathingonedayandexcuseitthenextisnofoundationformorality(道德).Alsoparentsshouldrealizethat“exampleisbetterthanprecept(规则)”.Iftheyarenotsincereanddon'tpractisewhattheypreach(teach)theirchildrenmaygrowconfusedandemotionallyinsecure(不稳定)whentheygrowoldenoughtothinkforthemselvesandrealizetheyhavebeentosomeextentfooled.
Astudent'sawarenessofamarkeddifferencebetweentheirparents'principlesandtheirmoralscanbeadangerousdisappointment.
1．Eagerlywatchingthechild'sacquisitionofnewskills________.
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A．shouldbeavoided
B．isuniversalamongparents
C．sets-updangerousstatesofworryinthechildren
D．willmakehimloseinterestinlearningnewthings
2．Intheprocessofchildren'slearningnewskillsparents________.
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A．shouldencouragethemtoreadbeforetheyknowthemeaningofthewordstheyread
B．shouldnotexpecttoomuchofthem
C．shouldachieveabalancebetweenpushingthemtoomuchandleavingthemontheirown