1.第一Inmyeyeshelpingothersishappiness

　　Happinesschangeswhenagechanges.Itistoyorcandyinchildren’seyes.Itismoneyorhonorinambitiousyoungmen’seyes.Itispeacefullifeorfamilyinelderpeople’seyes.However,thereisalwaysonekindofhappinessinmyeyes---makingothershappy.

　　WhenIwasachild,Iwastoldthatagoodmanwouldgainhishappiness.Whatisagoodman?Agoodmanwillbehappyforother’shappiness,sadforother’ssadness.ThenIbegantolearnhowtobringhappinesstoothers.

　　Helpingothersisagoodway.Anylittlethingyoudoforotherswillcausebigsatisfactionyoucan’timagine.Asmileor“thankyou”fromthepersonyouhelpwillbethebestreward.Weoftenhearthatpeoplewhocontributetheirmoneytohelpthepoorseemtobethemorehappythanthosewholocktheirsinthesafe.Butitisnotnecessarytobethesupermantosavethefallingplane.Anassistancetoolderpeoplemayhavethesameeffect.Itissosimple.

　　Don’tforceotherstoobeyyourrulesofhappiness.Thereisastory.Aboyfellinlovewithagirl.Atthebeginning,happinesssurroundedthemjustasalllovers.Latertheyhaddifferentideasandquarreled.Theboydidn’twanttogiveuphishappymemoryoflovewhilethegirlwantedtobreakup.Atthistime,theboy’sfathertoldhim,“Ifyoucan’tbringhappinesstothegirlanymore,neitherofyouwillbehappy.”Thentheboyabandonedhisselfishness.Atlasttheywerestillgoodfriendsafterbreakingup.Weseeother’sfacesmorethanourselves,soweareaffectedeasilybyothers’mood.Howcouldyoubehappyifothersarenot?

　　Inaword,tobeagoodmanwhobringshappinesstoothersisgoodforyourself.

　　2.第二Therearelotsofpeoplewhowasneedheiping.wecanhelpotherswhentheirhavereallytroubles.Somewecanhelp,butotherswecan't.infact,theyonlylazyandmakeotherpeopledoingsomethingtheyneedtodo.Ifsomeoneaskforyouhelptohaveajob,youwillmakehetalkwhyheneedthejobatfirst.Andremember:Infact,helpingothersisapleasure!Everyoneshouldliketodosomethingtohelppeopleinneed.however,weneedtoknowwhyheaskforhelp,andheiphetohelphimself.