TheSecretstoHappinessWealwayswanttoearnmoremoney．Nomatterhowmuchweearn，itwon'tmakeushappier．（36）___．Sowhatwillbringushappiness？Theansweris4things．These4thingshavebeenprovenbyresearch-surveysofmanypeop
TheSecretstoHappiness
Wealwayswanttoearnmoremoney．Nomatterhowmuchweearn，itwon'tmakeushappier．（36）___．Sowhatwillbringushappiness？Theansweris4things．These4thingshavebeenprovenbyresearch-surveysofmanypeopleaboutwhattheyhaveandhowhappytheyare．Heretheyare：
1．Goodrelationships．（37）___Havingsupportivefriendships，astrongmarriageandlovingrelationshipswithourfamilieswillmakeusmuchmorelikelytobehappy．Sospendtimewithyourlovedones，tellingthemwhattheymeantoyou，listeningtothemanddevelopingyourrelationshipwiththem．
2．Positivethinking．Positivethinkingisthebestwaytoachieveyourgoals，butitturnsoutthatitcanleadtohappinesstoo．Optimismandself-esteemaresomeofthebestindicatorsofpeoplewholeadhappylives．（38）___Makepositivethinkingahabitandreplaceallnegativethoughtswithpositiveones．
3．Flow．ThisisapopularconceptontheInternetthesedays-thestateweenterwhenwearecompletelyfocusedontheworkortasks．Wearesoimmersedinourtasksthatwelosetrackoftime．Havingworkandleisurethatgetsyouinthisstateofflowwillalmostundoubtedlyleadtohappiness．（39）___Findworkandhobbiesthatyou'repassionateabout．
4．Generosity．Beinggenerousmeanstakingactiontowardothersandbeingsensitivetoothers'needsandwants．
（40）___Yetgenerositydoesn'tjustbenefittherecipientofourofferings．Itnaturallyreducesstressandcombatsdepression，whileenhancingoursenseofhappiness．Itcanevenlengthenourlifespan．
A．Happiness depends on people's different attitudes to life．
B．It involves us helping others in ways mat extend beyond ourselves．
C．We have a human need to be close and intimate will other human beings．
D．There is no greater happiness than that of succeeding in one's education．
E．Instead it can take us decades of pursuing wealth．
F．People find greatest enjoyment when they're absorbed in a mindful challenge．
G．Happy people feel empowered，in control of their lives，and have a positive outlook on life．