【Becauseconflictanddisagreementsarepartofallcloserelationshipscouplesneedtolearnstrategiesformanagingconflictinahealthyandconstructiveway.Somecouplesjust__50__anddenythepresenceofanyconflictinarelationshi】

　　Becauseconflictanddisagreementsarepartofallcloserelationshipscouplesneedtolearnstrategiesformanagingconflictinahealthyandconstructiveway.Somecouplesjust__50__anddenythepresenceofanyconflictinarelationship.__51__denyingtheexistenceofconflictresultsincouples_52___tosolvetheirproblemsatearly__53__whichcanthenleadtoevengreaterproblemslateron.Notsurprisinglyexpressingangeranddisagreementleadstolowermarital(婚姻的)satisfactionatthebeginning.Howeverthispatternofbehavior_54___increasesinmaritalsatisfactionovertime.Researchsuggeststhatworkingthroughconflictsisanimportantpredictorofmaritalsatisfaction.

　　Sowhatcanyoudotomanageconflictinyourownrelationships?Firsttrytounderstandtheotherperson’spointofview__55__putyourselfinhisofherplace.Peoplewhoare_56___towhattheirpartnerthinksandfeels_57___greaterrelationshipsatisfaction.Forexampleresearchersfoundthatamongpeopleindatingrelationships 58____marriagesthosewhocanadopttheirpartner’sperspectiveshowmorepositiveemotionsmorerelationship-enhancingattributesandmoreconstructiveresponses_59___conflict.

　　Secondbecauseconflictanddisagreementsarean__60__partofcloserelationships，peopleneedtobeabletoapologizetotheirpartnerforwrongdoingand__61__forgivenessfromtheirpartnersfortheirownacts.Apologiesminimizeconflictleadtoforgivenessandservetorestorerelationshipcloseness.Inlinewiththisviewspouses（配偶）whoaremoreforgivingshowhighermentalqualityovertime.Increasinglyapologizingcanevenhave_62___healthbenefits.Forexamplewhenpeoplereflectonhurtful__63__andgrudges(怨恨)，theyshownegativephysiological(生理的)effectsincluding__64__ heartrateandbloodpressurecomparedtowhentheyreflectonsympatheticperspective-takingandforgiving.

　　【小题1】A．resolveB．regretC．abandonD．avoid【小题2】A．Besides　B．ThereforeC．MoreoverD．However