Wecanmakemistakesatanyage.Somemistakeswemakeareaboutmoney.butmostmistakesareaboutpeople."DidJerryreallycarewhenIbrokeupwithHelen?""WhenIgotthatgreatjobdidJimasafriendreallyfeelgoodabout

　　Wecanmakemistakesatanyage.Somemistakeswemakeareaboutmoney.butmost

　　mistakesareaboutpeople."DidJerryreallycarewhenIbrokeupwithHelen?""WhenIgot

　　thatgreatjobdidJimasafriendreallyfeelgoodaboutit?Ordidheenvymyluck?""AndwasPaulfriendlyjustbecauseIhadacar?"Whenwelookbackdoubtslikethesecanmakeusfeelbad.

　　Butwhenwelookbackitistoolate.

　　Whydowegowrongaboutourfriendsorourenemies?Sometimeswhatpeoplesayhidestheirrealmeanings.Andifwedonotreallylistenwemissthefeelingbehindthewords.Supposesomeonetellsyou"You'realuckydog!"(你真幸运!)Ishereallyonyourside?Ifhesays"You'realuckyguy!"thatisbeingfriendly.But"aluckydog?"Thereisabitofenvyinthosewords.Whathemaybesayingisthathedoesnotthinkyoudeserveyourluck.

　　"Justthinkofallthethingsyouhavetobethankfulfor"isanotherphrasethatsaysonethingandmeansanother.Itcouldmeanthatthespeakeristryingtogetyoutoseeyourproblem.Butthisphrasecontainsthethoughtthatyourproblemisnotatallimportant.

　　Howcanyoutelltherealmeaningbehindsomeone'swords?Onewayistotakeagoodlookatthepersontalking.Dohiswordsfitthewayhelooks?Iswhathesaysshownbythetoneofvoice?Thelookinhiseyes?Stopandthink.Theminuteyouspendthinkingabouttherealmeaningofwhatpeoplesaytoyoumaysaveyouranothermistake.

　　Whenthewriterrecalls(回想)someofthethingsthathappenedbetweenhimandhis

　　friendshe_______.

　　A.feelshappythinkinghownicehisfriendsweretohim

　　B.feelshemightnothaveunderstoodhisfriends'truefeelings

　　C.thinkitamistaketohavebrokenupwithhisgirlfriend

　　D.issorrythathisfriendslethimdown

　　.Whenthewritertalksaboutsomeonesaying"You'realuckydog!"heissayingthat

　　_____.

　　A.thespeakerisjustfriendly

　　B.thissentencesuggeststhesameas"You'realuckyguy!"

　　C.theword"dog"shouldnotbeusedtoapplytopeople

　　D.sometimesthewordsshowthatthespeakerisabitenvious

　　Thispassagetriestotellyouhow