Existingfamilybelievesthatisbasedonfeelings,onthebasisoftherelationshipbetweenhusbandandwife,husbandandwifeisnotbetweenyouandme,youaremy,Iamyou;yourstuffismine,andmystuffisyours.Ithinkthisiswrong,isharmful.Theideaissimplynaivetoemotionalproblems,isthefamily,suchastherootoftheproblemofdomesticviolence.Weshouldrationallyseethatconjugalrelationsarebuiltonthebasisofthesexualandemotionalneeds;couplesarenoteachother'sappendages,butsexualpartnersbornejointly,emotionalfriendandtrainingpartnerfortheirchildren.Inadditiontothethreetypesofrelationships,marriagedoesnothaveanyothermeaning.Asforthespecificcontentofthesethreekindsofrelationships,Idonotsay.Likeanyotherrelationshipbetweenhusbandandwiferelationshipbetweenanytwopeopleinthecommunity.Husbandbeathiswife,justasifyouhadanyotherpersontobesubjecttolegalsanctions.Sothatdomesticviolenceandsocialviolenceareillegal.Wedevelopthisnewconceptofthefamilyandstipulatedinthemarriagelawthatdomesticviolenceisboundtogreatlyreduce.