A.Argumentsarepointless.B.Yourparentsonlywantwhat'sbestforyou.C.Everyone'sopinionmattersonlyasmuchasyouwantthemto.D.Youlearnbydoing.E.Youremotionsareunderyourcontrol.F.Youaren'tstuckinanysituationLifeis
A.Argumentsarepointless.
B.Yourparentsonlywantwhat'sbestforyou.
C.Everyone'sopinionmattersonlyasmuchasyouwantthemto.
D.Youlearnbydoing.
E.Youremotionsareunderyourcontrol.
F.Youaren'tstuckinanysituation
Lifeisthegreatestteacher
TherealwayscomesamomentwhenIwonderwhereIwillendupandthismomentalwaysservesasastrongmotivationformetolearnlifelesson.I'velearnedagreatmanythingsbutthesearethelessonsthatIwishI'dlearnedearlier:
【小题1】_________
Therewasatimewheneveryone'sopinionwasmineaswell.WhateverpreferencesIformerlyheldweredashedinthefaceofanother's.Thismostlikelycamefromaneedtopleaseothers.Rememberthatyouropinionmattersjustasmuchasthenextguy'swhethertheymakemoremoneythanyouorarelesspopularthanyou.Everyone'sopinionholdsthesameweight.
【小题2】_________
Dramachaosandemotionalunrest—thesewerewhattookupmostofmytimeasateenager.IfIhadheardsomeonesaidbadthingsbehindmybackI'dbeangry.Gocrazy.LookingbackonthosetantrumsnowI'mnottoosurprised.Afterallwhenyouhavelittleselfcontrolanythingispossible.Thelessonhereisremainawareofhowyoureact.
【小题3】_________
Willonesmallargumentamongfriendsdecidethefateoftheentireuniverse?Inmyworlditfeltlikeit.Ijustwantedsomuchtoberightandforthemsomuchtobewrong.Butintheenditonlyresultedinmewastingmytimeandintheotherpersonstormingoffinfrustration.Istherereallyapointtoarguing?Unlessit'sabsolutelynecessaryI'velearnedthatit'sbettertoholdyourbreathonthingsyoucan'tcontrolatall.Arguingtochangesomeone'smindisoneofthem.
【小题4】_________
I'mnotsayingeveryparentwantswhat'sbestforyou(thereareoutliers)butingeneralparentsdowhattheydoforyouinyourbestinterest.Myparentsusedtomakemedothedishescookdinnersweepthefloorsmowthelawntakeoutthegarbage…thelistgoesonandon.AndateveryturnI'dwhineandcomplain.I'deventuallyendupdoingit.NowIhonestlyseethevalueinhavinglearnedthoseskills.Icanefficientlycookandcleanupaftermyself.
【小题5】_________
When