【阅读理解Foralongtimebeinghappywasconsideredsomethingthatjusthappenedandtherewasnothingspecialtodoaboutit.Nowweknowthatgettingalongwithourselvesandwithotherpeopleissomethingthatwecouldwork】

　　阅读理解

　　Foralongtimebeinghappywasconsideredsomethingthatjusthappenedandtherewasnothingspecialtodoaboutit.Nowweknowthatgettingalongwithourselvesandwithotherpeopleissomethingthatwecouldworkat.Itispossibletoactinsuchawaythatotherpeoplewouldlikeusbetter.Onewayisbeingunselfishnotwantingeverythingourownwayordemandingthebestshareofeverythingincludingtheattentionofourfriends.Anotherwayistolookforgoodpointsnotbedonesinotherpeople;itissurprisinghowsuccessfulthistreasurehuntwillbe.

　　Youdon'thavetobespineless(懦弱)inordertobepopular.Infactyouwillbelikedandrespectedifyouarenotafraidtostandupforyourrights.Butdoitpolitelyandpleasantly.Beingfriendlyandpolitetoyourowngrouptoolderpeopletostrangersandespeciallytothosewhodonotlookimportantordonotinterestyouisonewaytodevelopagoodcharacter.

　　Youcannotexpecttobeperfectandsoyoumustlearnrattobetoounhappywhenyoumakeamistake.Everyonemakesmistakesandnooneistobeblamedunlesssherefusestolearnfromthem.Manyyoungpeoplebecomediscouragedwhentheyrecognizeinthemselvesqualitiesthattheydonotlike—selfishnesslazinessandotherunpleasantqualities.Justrememberthatweallhavesomeofthesefaultsandhavetofightagainstthem.

　　Atthesametimeitisimportanttorememberthatwhileyouareprobablynoworsethanotherschancesareyouareratmuchbettereither.Thesurestwaytobehappyistothinkyourselfaboveotherpeople.

　　Whensomethingiswrongitisgoodsensetotrytomakeitright.Perhapsyoudon'tlikeateacheroraclassmate.Trytoseewhyandlookatyourselftootobesurethatyouarenotdoingsomethingtomakethepersondislikeyou.Intimethingsmayturnoutallrightthenyouwillsimplyhavetolearntogetalongthebestyoucanwiththesituationwithoutthinkingtoomuchaboutit.Worryingneverhelpsinasituationyoucan'tchange.

　　1．Oneofthetwowaystheauthorsuggestedforustogetalongwellwithothersis________.

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　　A．todrawtheattentionofourfriends

　　B．topaymoreattentiontootherpeople'sgoodpoints

　　C．tolookfortreasureinordertobesuccessful

　　D．todemandthebestshareofeverything