Hardlifeisgoodforchildren

　　Inchina,withtheenforcement(强制)ofthebirthcontrolpolicy,mostparentshaveonlyonechild.Theparentsandgrandparentshaveshowntoomuchlovetotheironlychild;thenumberofspoiled(被宠坏的)childrenhasincreasedinChina.Consequently(必然地),howtobringupthechildbecomesaseriousproblemtomanyyoungparents.

　　Theonlychildhasshowncompletedependenceontheparents.Manyfivetoseven-year-oldsstillhang(悬挂方式)ontheirpatentsinalmosteveryaspectoflife,frombuttoningclothstogoingtothetoilet.Thesechildrenhaveneverlearnttodoelementaryhouseholdchores(家庭杂务).Evenworse,theonlychildrentendtobeillmanneredandself-centered.Theyoftenfightoversomethinginsteadofcooperatingtogether.Parentsgivethemcalculators(计算者),turnonthetelevisionandleavetheteachingtoteachers.Someparentsevenoffermaterialincentives(鼓励)toreluctant(不情愿的)childrentolure(引诱)themtolearnandtodosomething.Theyareagenerationofkidswhohaveneverbeenhurtorhungry.Theyhavelearnedsomebodywillalwaysdothingsforthem.

　　Thekeytosolvingtheproblemofspoiled(被宠坏的)childrenliesincorrectlyeducatingbothchildrenandadult.Inmyopinion,hardlifeisgoodforchildren.Parentsshouldbeusedtosayingnotothekid,andletachilddohardwork.Workinghardwillgivehimanopportunitytotastethebitternessquickly.Besides,hardworkmayenablehimtocherish(珍爱)thefruitoftheothers’labor.

　　Humansocietyisfulloftestsandtrials.Flowersfromagreenhouse(温室)canneverwithstandastorm.Childrenwholiveluxuriously(奢侈地)andcomfortablycanneverbecomesomebodyinthefuture.Besides,toreducethechanceofspoiledchildren,parentsandsocietymustworktogether.Meanwhile,bothprimaryandnursery(幼儿室)schoolshouldstepuptheireffortsintrainingchildren.