Whydoparentshavesuchadifficulttimetocommunicateopenlyandhonestlywiththeirteens?Forthistherearemanyreasonsbutmostofthemresultfromnotbeingabletoproperlyunderstandtheirteens.Itisadangerousgapbecausep

　　Whydoparentshavesuchadifficulttimetocommunicateopenlyandhonestlywiththeirteens?Forthistherearemanyreasonsbutmostofthemresultfromnotbeingabletoproperlyunderstandtheirteens.Itisadangerousgapbecauseparentswillhavetocommunicatewiththeirteensaboutawidevarietyofissuesduringthemostimportantyearsoftheirlives.Thusparentsmustknowhowtocommunicateopenlyandhonestlywiththeirteens.

　　Hereareafewtipstomakecommunicationeasierbetweenparentsandteenagers.

　　1.Trynottotalkdowntoyourteens.Makethemfeelasiftheirviewsreallymatterwhichnot

　　onlyhelpsyourdiscussionswithyourteenbutbringyouclosertohim.

　　2.Imaginewhatitwouldbeliketobeateen.Trytoremembersomeofthenegativefeelings

　　youexperiencedasateenagerandapplyittoyourteen'ssituation.

　　3.Nevermakenegativeremarkstoyourteenaboutwhatshehassaidordone.

　　4.Rememberhowmuchcourageitwouldhavetakenforyourteentocomeandtalktoyou

　　abouthispersonalissues.Solistenrespectfully.

　　5.Don'tignoreyourteen'sfeelingsbecauseitisusuallyacryforhelp.Forinstanceifyour

　　teenisunusuallyangryitmaybetimetospendabitofqualitytimewithyourteentodeterminewhatiswrongandwhereitiscomingfrom.

　　Itisthereforenecessaryforparentstostrivetokeeplinesofcommunicationopenatalltimeswiththeirteens.Trytorememberwhatitwasliketobeateenagerandhowvulnerable（脆弱的）youfelt.Thenyouwillbewellonyourwaytohelpyourteencommunicatemoreopenlyandhonestly.

　　67.Whydon'tteenswanttotalkabouttheirpersonalissueswiththeirparents?

　　A.Becausetheycan'trespecttheirparents.

　　B.Becausetheycan'tunderstandtheirparents.

　　C.Becausetheirparentswon'tunderstandthemwell.

　　D.Becausetheirparentsarenothonest.

　　68.WhenyoursoncomestoyouforhelpyoushouldNOT_____.

　　A.listenrespectfully B.treathimseriously

　　C.careabouthisfeeling D.makenegativeremarks

　　69.Whichofthefollowinghasthesimilarmeaningtotheunderlinedphrase“talkdownto”?

　　A.putdown B.lookdow