When,asafreshmanfirstenteredCollege,Ifearthattheydowellinschool.Ifearalone,becauseIwasthefirsttimeawayfromhisfamily.AroundherearepeopleIdon'tknow,andtheydon'tknowme.Ihavetomakefriendswiththem,perhapsonthecourseIwanttolearntocompetewiththemonthescore.TheyaresmarterthanIdo?Ikeepupwiththem?Theywillacceptme?
Iquicklyrealizedthatmylifenowdependsonmyown.IfIwanttosucceedinschool,Iwouldhavetodrawupastudyplan.Ihavetoadjustthetimespentonlearningandtimespentonsocialnetworks.Ihavetodecidewhentogotobed,whenwhatyoueat,whentodrink,whatpeoplefriendly.Ihavetoownanswerstothesequestions.
Atthebeginningoflifesomewhatdifficult.Imadeamistakeontheuseoftime.Ispendtoomuchtimeonmakingfriends.I'mstillonhowtoselectthefirstfriendsincollegemadeafewerrors.
ButsoonIhadcontrolofhisownlife.Ididarriveontime,completeandsubmitthefirstjobon,andthefairlygoodresultsthroughthepreviousexam.Inaddition,Ialsomadesomefriend,togetherwiththemIfeelverycomfortable,IcantellIamworriedaboutthem.Ihavebuiltareallybelongstomyownroutine--aroutinetomeetmyneeds.
Theresult,Istartedfromadifferentpointofviewofmyown.Ibegantoregardthemselvesasresponsiblefortheirownpeopleresponsibletofriendsandfamily.Everythingtomaketheirowndecisionsandseethedecisionultimatelyprovedtobeawisedecision,thisfeelingisverygood.Iguessthat'swhatpeoplemeanby"grow"partofit.
Whataboutmylifeinthefuture?Atthisstageoflife,I'mreallynotsuremylife'sjourneywilleventuallyheading,Ireallydon'tknowwhatIwilldointhenextfewyears.ButIknowthatIcandealwiththefuture,becauseIhavesuccessfullyjumpedoverthisimportantobstaclesinmylife:Ihavefinishedthefeelingsfromadependentfamilymemberssupporttoatransitiontoapersonresponsiblefortheirownpeople.