Timeoutextrachoresandtakingawayprivilegesaremoreusefulformsofdisciplining(惩戒)naughtychildrenthanspankingorhittingaccordingtoastudyonWednesday.About94percentofparentsusesomeformofphysicalpunishment
Timeoutextrachoresandtakingawayprivilegesaremoreusefulformsofdisciplining(惩戒)naughtychildrenthanspankingorhittingaccordingtoastudyonWednesday.
About94percentofparentsusesomeformofphysicalpunishmenttoteachtheirtwo-year-oldsrightfromwrongaccordingtoresearchstudies.Butpsychologistssayitcouldleadtolateremotionalandbehavioralproblems.
Evenchildrenwhowereonlyspankedsomeoftimearemorelikelytoshowsignsofsadnessorhavelessconfidence.
“Thekeyistobefairanddothesamethingeachtime.Doingsomethinglikehittingachildthatseemscruelatbestdoesn’thelpandcanputachildatriskforproblems”saidDrPaulFrickoftheUniversityofNewOrleansinLouisians.
“Itisbettertouseotherpunishments”headded.
Theuseofphysicalpunishmenttoteachchildrenhaslongbeendebated.IncountriessuchasAustriaFinlandGermanyandSwedenitisillegaltousephysicalpunishmentathomeorinschools.
Frickandhisteamwhostudiedtheeffectsofphysicalpunishmenton98childrensaidtheycouldn’tfindanypositiveeffects.Somechildrenlearnedmorefromthehittingthanwhattheparentwastryingtoteachthem.
“Thekeyistohavealotofdifferentformsofpunishmentdependingontheageofthechild”saidFrickwhoreportedhisfindingsintheJournalofAppliedChildPsychology.
Herecommendedtimeoutforyoungerchildrenandtakingawaytelevisionandelectronictoysforolderchildren.Givingextrachorescanalsogetthemessageacross.
Othermeasuresareatleastaseffectiveasphysicalpunishmentandhavelessharmfulpotentialconsequences.
Theresearcherskeptchildrenwhomtheythoughtwereatriskoflaterconductproblemsoutofthetestandanequalnumberofotherchildrenwhoactedasacontrolgrouptostudywhatmeasureswouldbemosthelpful.
Theyquestionedtheparentsandthechildrenaboutpositiveandnegativeparentingbehaviorincludingtheuseofphysicalpunishment.
“Wegotitfrombothviewpoints”saidFrick.
Headdedthatchildrenonthereceivingendofahitcanlearnthatwhentheyareupsetandangrytheyhitratherthanunderstandingtheirbehaviorwaswrongandthattheyneedtodobetter.