慢慢讲就是了,多点肢体语言
Don'tcriticize,condemnandcomplain,thisisfisrtboldsentenceigotfromhowtowinfriendsandinfluencepeople&howtostopworringandstartlivingwhichwasDaleCarnegieveryfamousandpopularwriterintheworld.AlthoughIdidn'tfeeldifficulttodealwithpeople,Isitllwanttoimproveanddeepthefinetocontactpeople.Ibelievethiswillbehelpfulinmyfuturelifeandcareer.Don'tcriticizeisthefirstfuleIlearnedfromthebook
Criticize,condemncan'twintherespectandfriendshipfromtheotherpeople,butgetresentments,enemyandhostile.Itisessencethateverybodywilljustifythemselveswhentheydosomethingwrong.Condemnandblamecan'tmakethewrongdoertocorrecttheiractionandfeelguilty,butjustmakethemdefensive.Sofortogetfriendship,thefirststepistogiveupcriticism.
Theangryisakindofnormalfeelingofhumanwhenwearenotsatisfiedwithsomethingbadly.Weoftencan'thelptoangryandcondemntheonewhodosomethingwrongorharmfultous.Itiseasytosaytocalmdownbutdifficulttodothat.Sowemustrememberthissentencealwaysinmindfrommorningtonight.Wealsocanplayagame,wewillpay10RMBasapunishmentoncewelosttemp.weneedlongtimetochangethehabit.Butitisworth,Ibelieve.