Myfirststickysituation

　　Inourlife,wewillalwayscomearoundsometoughproblemswhichwefindthemdifficulttodealwith.Especiallywhenweareconfrontedwithsomeawkwardoccasions,weoftendon'tknowwhattodo,lettingalonecopingwithastickysituationforthefirsttime.StillIcanrememberthatmyfirststickysituationwasreallyasternexperiencethatcouldbetracedbacktomychildhoodwheniwasjustten-year-old.

　　Attheageoften,icouldn'tunderstandallthecomplicatedthingsaboutthisvastworldandididn'tknowhowtosaysomethingproperlyinaproperoccasion.Oneday,iwasvisitedtomyfriend'sbirthdayparty.Iwaswillingtogo,ofcourse,butmymotherwon'tallowmetoforileftalotofhomeworkundone.ThusItriedtoturnmyfrienddown,yetalittlereluctant.Thenitalkedtomyfriendandtoldhim,"sorry,icannotgobecauseiamagoodchildwhowouldliketodohomeworkathome.Happybirhdayandhaveagoodtime."Atthatmoment,ididn'trealizethatihadhurthimandmadehimfeelupset.Afterthathewon'tcomeovertomeandsayhi,ifeltfrustratedandannoyed.Anotherday,isawhimhappilytalkingtoaclassmateduringabreak,ifeltmoreannoyedthanfrustrated,theniwenttohimandhithimrightonhisnose.Alltheclassmateswereshockedbythatsceneexcepthim.Iaskedwhyhedidn'ttalktome.AfterawhileIgottheanswer,"becauseialsowanttobeagoodchildwhowouldliketokeepdistancefromabookworm."Thenicouldn'tfindanywordstocounterattackhim.

　　That'smyfirststickysituationwhereicouldn'treplymyfriendinawiseandappropriateway.Moreover,Ilostafriendinthatoccasion.Ifeeldisappointedaboutthat.However,notwopersonscanbeparalleliftheycan'tfindasameobjective.Iwon'tfeelregretful.