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　　Beforeremarkingonthetopic,Iwouldliketomakeclearthedefinitionofsocialization.Inmyview,socializationisaprocessofformingone'sbasicconceptonbasicvalue,belief,ethnicandmoralstandardsthroughsocialactivities.Whatachildlearnsthroughsocializationtodayisdoubtlesstoaffecthisfuture,howeveritoverdostoassertthathowchildrenaresocializeddeterminesthedestinyofoursociety,besidesIthinkitisalsoanoverstatementtoclaimthatwehavenotyetlearnedhowtoraisechildrenthoughtherearestilllotsoftoughissuesstandingonourwaytobetterraisechildren.:Z#A'T)}'p+l4X'z)U)O,u%X

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　　Childrenarebornjustasablankpaper,theygraduallyfostertheirpersonalbeliefs,lifeattitude,ethicandmoralstandards,andvalueperspectivesthroughallkindsofsocialactivitiesandcommunications,andthesefundamentallyfactorsdeterminesthedestinyofapersonandinevitablyaffectourfutureinthelongrun.Achildwastaughttobealwaysputthelargestnumberofpeople'interestsoverhisownislesslikelytodamageother'sinterestwhenheshetriestoseekhisownpersonalgood.Achildreceivedmoreencouragementaremorelikelytohavetheconfidencetoovercomethedifficultiesinhislife.Whatwelearnedthroughsocializationwillbereflectedinsomewayinfuture.TheformerUnitedStatesSecretaryofStateRiceisagoodexamplehere.Tobethefirstblackstatesecretary,Riceownsalottoherchild-formedbraveandforthrightpersonalitythroughherchildsocialization.Whenshewasachild,theblackstillwasnotequallytreatedasthewhiteandtheywereoftenbulliedbythewhite.Withhermother'sencouragementsheformedherbraveandadamantpersonalitywhichhelpsalottogetherachievementsinherlaterlife.;U-E#m7K5S/S:B