Doyouknowthesecretofhavingasuccessfulparty?

　　你知道举办一场成功的宴会的秘密吗?

　　Cooksomethingthatwouldletyouspendtimewithyourguests.Ifaguestofferstohelpyouinthekitchen,accept(接受）theoffer.Itoftenmakespeoplefeelmorecomfortablewhentheycanhelp.

　　烹饪会让你跟客人共度时光.如果客人主动帮你下厨房,接受吧.当人们能够帮忙时他们会感到自在.

　　Beforeservingdinner,whileyourguestsmakesmalltalksinthelivingroom,offerthemdrinks.Someguestsmaylikewine,butmakesuretoprovidesoftdrinksforpeoplewhodon't.

　　用餐前,当你的客人在起居室谈笑时,给他们倒些喝的.有些客人喜欢喝酒,但确定给不喝酒的人倒些软饮料.

　　Atthedinnertable,letyourguestsservethemselves.Offerthemasecondservingaftertheyfinished,butdon'taskmorethanonce.Mostguestswilltakemoreiftheywant.

　　在餐桌前,让客人随便吃.他们吃完后再让让他们,但不要让过一次.多数客人如果想的话就会再多吃些.

　　Perhapsthemostimportantruleofallistobenatural.WhetheryourpartyissuccessfulornotmainlydependsonitTreatyourguestsasyouwantthemtotreatyouwhenyou'reintheirhome--thatis,actnaturaltowardsthemanddon'ttrytoohardtobepolite.Haveagoodtimeinapleasantatmosphere(氛围）

　　也许最重要的原则就是自然些.宴会的成功与否在此一举.像希望客人在他们家里对待你那样对待他们——就是,对他们表现自然些,不要故意太礼貌.在每秒的气氛中渡过一段美好的时光.