Howdoyoutalkwithnewpeoplewhenmeetingthemifyouwanttoleaveagoodimpression？Herearesometipsforyou．Tip1Youhavetoshowup，whichcanbeachallengeformanyofus．Youcanshowupasanobserver（旁观者）ofot

　　How do you talk with new people when meeting them if you want to leave a good

　　impression？Here are some tips for you．

　　Tip 1 You have to show up，which can be a challenge for many of us．You can show up as an observer（旁观者） of other interesting people and let that be a learning experience for you．Before you start talking，it’s important to just listen，even if you think you are a wise storyteller．If you are close to a group of people who are discussing a topic，watch their body language and see if they will let you join in their conversation．Tip 2 You’d better go in the conversation with a couple of topics to keep it going，or question to ask if there is a short stop．Simple things like“How do you know the host？”and“How did you get here？”are always good conversation starters to a certain extent．Tip 3 Don’t fear silences．Awkward（令人尴尬的） silences are common part of talking with people，just rush to fill them．If you don’t want to go on with the conversation，just say you are going to get another drink or something to eat，and find another group to talk