【英语翻译asindividualsacceptthemselvesmorefully,theyoftenbecomemoreacceptingofothers.Thisistheoppositeofself-alienation,whichoccurswhenwefailtoacknowledgeoracceptcertainaspectsofourselves.Wethenfeelthesequalitiesarefo】

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　　individualsacceptthemselvesmorefully,theyoftenbecomemoreacceptingof

　　others.Thisistheoppositeofself-alienation,whichoccurswhenwefailto

　　acknowledgeoracceptcertainaspectsofourselves.Wethenfeelthese

　　qualitiesareforeigntousandweprojectthemontoothers,whomwethen

　　dislike.Forexample,themanwho,whiledenyinghisowndependencyneeds,

　　appearstobestrongandself-sufficientmayfeelcontemptformenwhoallow

　　themselvestobetakencareofwhenweakorill.Asyoucansee,personal

　　growthmaybeunsettlingattimes.Itinvolvesmovingawayfromsomeofthe

　　familiarself-imagesacquiredduringourformativeyears.Anditinvolves

　　seeingyourselfinnewways,especiallyasamoreself-directedperson.Because

　　eachofushasdifferentvaluesandgoalsthereisnodetailedguidetoassure

　　usthatwearedoingtherightthing.Nevertheless,understandingthegeneralpattern

　　ofgrowth,asprescribedbyRogers,maybehelpful.Andremember,“thegood

　　lifeisaprocess,notastateofbeing.Itisadirection,notadestination”

　　(Rogers,1961,p.186)