【Whenwethinkofleadership,weoftenthinkofstrengthandpower.Butwhatarethesereally,andhowdotheyoperate?Leadershiptodayisnotaboutforcingotherstodothings.Ifthisisevenpossible.itisshort-term,andtendstobackfire.】
Whenwethinkof leadership,weoftenthinkofstrengthandpower.Butwhatarethesereally,andhowdotheyoperate?
Leadershiptodayisnotaboutforcingotherstodothings.Ifthisisevenpossible.itisshort-term,andtendstobackfire.Ifyouordersomeonetodosomethingagainsttheirwill,theymaydoitbecausetheyfeeltheymust,buttheangertheyfeelwilldomoreharminthelong-term,Theywillalsoexperiencefear.
Fearcausesthethinkingbraintoshutdown,makingthepersonunabletofunctionathisorherbest.Iftheyassociateyouwiththisemotionoffear.Theywillbecomelessfunctionalaroundyou,andyouwillhavesucceededinnotonlyshootingyourselfinthefoot.butpossiblymakingaverygoodemployeeorpartnerunabletoperformeffectively.Fearhasnoplaceinleadership.
Thewayweinfluencepeopleinalastingwayisbyourowncharacter,andourunderstandinganduseofemotion.Wecanordersomeonetodosomething,whichmaybepartoftheworkday;orwecanemploythemattheemotionallevel,sotheybecamefullydevotedtotheprojectsandprovidesomeoftheirownmotivation(积极性)。Today’sworkplaceisallaboutrelationshipsasahumanbeingaswellasaworker.Everyoneproducesjustabitmoreforsomeonetheylike.Leadersunderstandthewaythingswork.Theyknowthepaycheckisnotthesinglemostmotivatingfactor(因素)intheworklifeofmostpeople.
Thetruestrengthofleadershipisaninnerstrengththatcomesfromtheconfidenceofemotionalintelligence---knowingyourownemotions,andhowtohandlethem,andthoseofothers.Developingyouremotionalintelligenceisthesinglebestthingyoucandoifyouwanttodevelopyourrelationshipswithpeoplearoundyou,whichisthekeytotheleadershipskills.
小题1:Anemployeemayhaveafeelingoffearintheworkplacewhen___.
A.heisforcedtodothings
B.becannotworkathisbest
C.hefeelshisbrainshutdown
Dhethinksofhisworkastooheavy
小题2:WhichofthefollowingisTRUEaccordingtothepassage?
APeopletendtoassociateleadershipwithfear
BWorkingconditionsaffectpeople’sphysicalhealth
CGoodrelationshipisthekeytobusinesssuccess
DSmartpeoplearemorefunctionalintheworkplace.
小题3:Topositivelyinfluenceemployeesaleadershouldfi