【英文散文：旁若无人地独舞Wealwaysconvinceourselvesthatlifewillbebetterafterwegetmarried,haveababy,thananother.Thenwearefrustratedthatthekidsaren'toldenoughandwe'llbemorecontetwhentheyare.Afterthatwe'refru】

　　英文散文：旁若无人地独舞

　　Wealwaysconvinceourselvesthatlifewillbebetterafterwegetmarried,haveababy,thananother.Thenwearefrustratedthatthekidsaren'toldenoughandwe'llbemorecontetwhentheyare.Afterthatwe'refrustratedthatwehaveteenagerstodealwith.wewillcertainlybehappywhentheyareoutofthatstage.Wealwaystellourselvesthatourlifewillbecompletewhenourspousegetshisorheracttogether.whenwegetaniceacar,andareabletogoonanicevocation.whenweretire.thetruthis,there'snobettertimethanrightnow.ifnotnow,when?ourlifewillalwaysbefilledwithchallenges.It'sbesttoadmitthistoourselvesanddecidetobehappyanyway.

　　OneofmyfavoritequotescomesfromAlfredSouza.Hesaid."foralongtimeithadseemedtomethatlifewasabouttobegin-reallife.Buttherewasalwayssomeobstacleintheway,sometingtobegottenthroughfirest,someunfinishedbusiness,timestilltobeserved,adebttobepaid.

　　Thenlifewouldbegin.Atlastitdawnedonmethattheseobstaclesweremylife."Thisperspectivehashelpedmetoseethatthereisnowaytohappiness.Happinessistheway.Sotreasureeverymomentthatyouhave.

　　Andrememberthattimewaitsfornoone.Sostopwailtinguntilyoufinishschool,untilyougobacktoschool;untilyougetmarried,untilyougetdivorced;untilyouhavekids;untilyouretire;untilyougetanewcarorhome;untilspring;untilyouarebornagaintodecidethatthereisnobettertimethanrightnowtobehappy….

　　Happinessisajourney,notadestination.so,worklikeyoudon'tneedmoney,lovelikeyou'veneverbeenhurt,Anddancelikenoone'swatching.