Passage2OnMother’sDaywhenwevisitedMominthehospital,shetoldusshebelievedPassage2OnMother’sDaywhenwevisitedMominthehospital,shetoldusshebelievedthemultipleroundsofchemotherapy(化疗),radiation,ICU(intensivecareu
Passage2OnMother’sDaywhenwevisitedMominthehospital,shetoldusshebelieved
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OnMother’sDaywhenwevisitedMominthehospital,shetoldusshebelievedthemultipleroundsofchemotherapy(化疗),radiation,ICU(intensivecareunit)stays,andsurgerieshadbeenworthitbecausetheyhadboughthersometime.“Butnow,it’stimetogohomeand‘takecareofbusiness’.”
Shortlyaftercominghome,Momannouncedthatsheplannedtomakeaquilt,whichshehadneverdone.WhenIaskedwhy,shesaid,“Dyingisboring,andit’snevertoolatetolearnsomethingnew.”Theidlenessassociatedwithincapacitywasmaddingtoher.OverthenextfewmonthsMomworkeddiligentlyonthequilt,asimplepatterncalled“Grandmother’sGarden”.
Asshepickedupapieceofcalico(印花布),shewouldsay,“Thisremindsmeofthedressyouworethefirstdayofschool,”or“Thisbluewasyourfather’sfavoritecolor.”Eachrecollectionopenedthedoorforaconversationaboutthosethingsthatshewantedtoshare.
Asthequiltgrew,Momweakened.Itwasapoignantreminderthattimewaspassingtooquickly.Atlast,shebecametoosicktoworkonthequilt.
Momdiedbeforethequiltwasfinished,butitwasallright.Shehadcreativelyuseditasatooltoteachmeherfinallesson,thatthe“business”ofdyingissomethingbestdoneathomeandnotinanintensivecareunit.Thisisbecausethereal“business”ofdyingisreaffirmingrelationshipsthathavegivenone’slifemeaning.
Withoutmyknowledge,twoChristmaslater,myhusband’sparentsfinishedthequiltforme.Itwasthemostwonderfulgiftimaginable.
Mom’squilthasservedourfamilyinmanywaysshewouldhaveliked-picniccloth,movingpad,bedspread,andwrapforhergreat-grandson.Eachtime,thequiltremindsmeofthebondbetweengenerationsandtheimportant“business”ofdying.
26.Momdecidedtogohomebecause.
A.Shewantedtoreceiveend-of-lifecareathome
B.itwasMother’sDay,andshemissedherfamily
C.hospitaltreatmentproducednoeffect
D.thefamilycouldnotaffordthemedicalfees
27.Bymakingaquilt,Momwanted.
A.todosomethingspecialassheapproacheddeath
B.tohelpwiththefamilyeconomy