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  MostpeoplelikeNewYear'sDaythoughtheyhavealotofhouseworktodo.有谁能告诉我这片文章的全文

  MostpeoplelikeNewYear'sDaythoughtheyhavealotofhouseworktodo.

  有谁能告诉我这片文章的全文

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  Tobegin,thisisathrowaway,sinceIbelievemyex-wife(orhernewhusband)maybearedditor.

  I'm28,wasmarriedfor5yearspriortomydivorce2yearsago.IamCanadian,andI'mex-military.

  ImetmywifewhenIwas19,justreturningfromAfghanistanforthefirsttime.ShewaseverythingIeverwantedinawoman:shewaskind,intelligent,witty,funny,caringandfaithful(orsoIthought).Wemetthroughamutualfriend,andquicklyhititoff.

  Ileftsoonaftermeetingher,oncemoreonrotationinAfghanistan.Wekepttouchthroughemailwheneverpossible.WhenIreturnedsixmonthslater,oneagain,wehititoff.Iwasmadlyinlovewithher.

  At21,shedroppedthebomb:shewaspregnant.ComingfromaratherCatholicfamily,Ifeltitwasmydutytopropose.Iwasplanningtoanyway,justnotsoearly.Sheaccepted.Weweremarried3monthslater,andoursonwasborn4monthsafterthat.Holdinghimforthefirsttime,IfeltthatitwasthefirsttimeinmylifethatIwasaman,andnotaboy.Lookingatthoseblueeyes,Iknewthatfromthatpointforth,itwouldbemysoledutyinlifetoprovideforhimandhismother,toteachhimtobeallthethingsIbelievedweregoodinlife:honorable,respectful,disciplinedandthoughtful.Idevotedeverysecondofmylifefromthatpointforthtopreparehisfuture,andIdecidedtostartacollegesavingsfundforhim.Iwasdeterminedtobeagoodfather.

  Whenhewas1,IwasonceagainaskedtogotoAfghanistan.Iwashesitant,butthebonusforservingoverseaswasatremendousopportunityformetosetusupfinancially.Iagreed,andIleftfor7months.Mythirdmonthin,withoutgoingintotoomuchdetail,thingsturnedugly.Myselfandmanyofmycomradeswerewounded(somekilled)byanIED.Inearlylostmylife,andtothisday,Icarrysomefairlyseverescarsandburnsonagoodportionofmybody.

  WheninGermany(whereNATOtroopsgettreatedforseriousinjuries),Iattemptedfranticallytocontactmywife.Shehadnotrespondedtoemailsforweeks,andthefewshehadansweredwereratherbriefandcold.Ifeltterribleforleavingherbehind,andIfiguredthat'swhyshewasbeingdistant.

  Aboutamonthlater,IwasbackinKandahar.Althoughnotworkinginmynormalcombatarmstrade,IfeltIstillneededtostayforfinancialreasons.Mysonwastheonlythingkeepingmethere.ThebonuswasthatIhadaccesstophonesandcomputers,soIalsohopedtopatchthingsupwithmywife(whateveritmayhavebeen...)

  (I'llfastforwardabit...sinceI'mdigressingtoomuch.)

  Aboutthe2ndmonthbackinKandahar,Ireceivedanemailfrommyneighbor,whohappenedtobeaMasterWarrantOfficer.Ifigureditwassomethingimportantinregardstomywork.HeaskedthatIcallhim,soIdid.Unknowingly,Iwokehimupat1AM,buthewasnonthelesspressedtospeaktome.WhathesaidIwillneverevereverforget.TherewasanothermanlivinginmyPMQhesaid.Ayoungofficer.Myheartsank,andIhadnoideawhattodo.Ihadanothercoupleofmonthstogo,andIwasheartbroken.IquicklysoughtcouncilfromanAJAGandmycommandingofficers.Eventually,throughsomesidedealings,theywereabletosendmehomeformedicalreasons(IlegitimatelyhavePTSD).

  WhenIarrivedbackinthecountry,Iwentstraighthome.WhenIarrived,myhousewasempty.Sheleft.Allthatwasleft,onthefloor(shetookEVERYTHING),weredivorcepapers,andtheyweredatedfrom8monthsback.Thiswasalongtimecoming.

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2020-11-20 19:36:02

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