As在这里该如何解释？Graduallyshewillrealizethatamanwantstomakeimprovementswhenhefeelsheisbeingapproachedasthesolutiontoaproblemratherthanastheproblemitself.好吧，其实整句我都没太读明白。更多上

　　As在这里该如何解释？

　　Graduallyshewillrealizethatamanwantstomakeimprovementswhenhefeelsheisbeingapproachedasthesolutiontoaproblemratherthanastheproblemitself.

　　好吧，其实整句我都没太读明白。

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　　Whenawomandoesnotknowhowtodirectlyaskamanforsupport(chapterI2)orconstructivelyshareadifferenceofopinion(chapter9),shemayfeelpowerlesstogetwhatsheneedswithoutgivingunsolicitedadviceorcriticism(again,weexplorethistopicmorefullylateron).Topracticegivingacceptanceandnotgivingadviceandcriticismis,however,abigstep.

　　Byclearlyunderstandingheisrejectingnotherneedsbutthewaysheisapproachinghim,shecantakehisrejectionlesspersonallyandexploremoresupportivewaysofcommunicatingherneeds.Graduallyshewillrealizethatamanwantstomakeimprovementswhenhefeelsheisbeingapproachedasthesolutiontoaproblemratherthanastheproblemitself.

　　Ifyouareawoman,Isuggestthatforthenextweekpracticerestrainingfromgivinganyunsolicitedadviceorcriticism.Themeninyourlifenotonlywillappreciateitbutalsowillbemoreattentiveandresponsivetoyou

　　Ifyouareaman,Isuggestthatforthenextweekyoupracticelisteningwheneverawomanspeaks,withthesoleintentionofrespectfullyunderstandingwhatsheisgoingthrough.Practicebitingyourtonguewheneveryougettheurgetoofferasolutionorchangehowsheisfeeling.Youwillbesurprisedwhenyouexperiencehowmuchsheappreciatesyou