【阅读理解：Somechildrenarenatural-bornbosses．Theyhaveastrongneedtomakedecisionsmanagetheirenvironmentandleadratherthanfollow．StephenJacksonaYearOnestudent“opera】

　　阅读理解：

　　Somechildrenarenatural-bornbosses．Theyhaveastrongneedtomakedecisionsmanagetheirenvironmentandleadratherthanfollow．StephenJacksonaYearOnestudent“operatesunderthetheoryofwhat’smineismineandwhat’syourismine”sayshismother．“TheotherdayIboughttwonewStarWarslightsabers(剑)．LaterIsawStephenwiththetwonewoneswhilehisbrotherwasusingthebeat-upones．

　　“Examinetheextendedfamilyandyou’llprobablyfindabossygrandparentauntuncleorcousinineverygeneration．It’saninheritabletrait”saysRussellBarkleyaprofessorattheMedicalUniversityofSouthCarolina．Otherchildrenwhomaynotbeparticularlybossycangraduallygaindominance(支配地位)whentheysensetheirparentsareweakhesitantorindisagreementwitheachother．

　　Whetherit’sinbornnatureordevelopedcharacteratworktoomuchcontrolinthehandsoftheyoungisn’thealthyforchildrenorthefamily．FearisattherootofalotofbossybehaviorsaysfamilypsychologistJohnTaylor．ChildrenhesaysinhisbookFromDefiancetoCooperation“havesecretfeelingsofweakness”and“adesiretofeelsafe．”It’stheparents’roletoprovidethatprotection．

　　Whena“bosschild”doesn’tlearnlimitsathomethestageissetforahostoftroublesoutsidethefamily．Theoverlywillfulandunbendingchildmayhavetroubleobeyingteachersorcoachesforexampleortroublekeepingfriends．Itcanbeprettylonelyasthetopdogifnoonelikesyourbossyways．

　　“Iseemoreandmoreparentsgivinguptheirpower”saysBarkleywhohasstudiedbossybehaviorformorethan30years．“Theybendtoofarbecausetheydon’twanttobeasstrictastheirownparentswere．Buttheyalsofeellessconfidentabouttheirparentingskills．Theirkidsinturnfeelmoreanxious．”

　　(1)

　　BossychildrenlikeStephenJackson________．

　　[]A．

　　makegooddecisions

　　B．

　　showself-