【Theevidenceforharmonymaynotbeobviousinsomefamilies.Butitseemsthatfouroutoffiveyoungpeoplenowgetonwiththeirparents,whichistheoppositeofthepopularlyheldimageofunhappyteenagerslockedintheirroomafterendles】
Theevidenceforharmonymaynotbeobviousinsomefamilies.Butitseemsthatfouroutoffiveyoungpeoplenowgetonwiththeirparents,whichistheoppositeofthepopularlyheldimageofunhappyteenagerslockedintheirroomafterendlessfamilyquarrels.
Animportantnewstudyintoteenageattitudes(态度)surprisinglyshowsthattheirfamilylifeishappierthanithaseverbeeninthepast.“Weweresurprisedbyjusthowpositive(积极的)today’syoungpeopleseemtobeabouttheirfamilies,”saidonememberoftheresearchteam.“They’reexpectedtoberebellious(叛逆的)andselfishbutactuallytheyhaveotherthingsontheirminds;theywantacarandmaterialgoods,andtheyworryaboutwhetherschoolisservingthemwell.There’sdiscussionbetweenparentsandchildren,andchildrenexpecttotakepartinthefamilydecision-makingprocess.Theydon’twanttorocktheboat.”
Soitseemsthattheseparentsaremuchmorelikelythanparentsof30yearsagototreattheirchildrenasfriends.“Myparentsarehappytodiscussthingswithmeandwillingtolistentome,”says17-year-oldDanielLaSalle.“IalwaystellthemwhenI’mgoingoutclubbing.WhentheyknowwhatI’mdoing,they’refinewithit.”SusanCromer,whoisnow21,agrees.“Lookingbackonthelast10years,therewasalotofwhatyoucouldcalltalkordiscussion.Forexample,whenI’ddoneallmyhomework,IcouldgooutonaSaturdaynight.ButIthinkmygrandparentswerealotstricterwithmyparentsthanthat.”
Maybethispositiveviewoffamilylifeshouldnotbeunexpected.Itispossiblethattheideaofteenagerebellion(叛逆)isnotbasedonrealfacts.Aresearcherexplains,“Teenagerswerethoughttobedifferentfromothersinapartoftimeinoursocialhistory.Buttooursurprise,theysaytheyaregettingonwellwiththeirparents.Butthatideaofrebellingandbreakingawayfromtheirparentsreallyonlyhappenedduringthatonetimeinthe1960swheneveryonerebelled.”
小题1:Thestudyshowsthatteenagersdon’twantto______________________.A.sharefamilydutiesB.causetroubleintheirfamiliesC.goboatingwiththeirfamilyD.makefamilydecisions小题2:Comparedwithparentsof30yearsago,today’sparents___________________.