阅读理解ForaslongasIcanrememberIhavebeenverybadatarguingwithpeople．AssoonassomeonedisagreeswithmeIgetangrybecauseIfeelattackedliketheotherpersonisouttosho

　　阅读理解

　　ForaslongasIcanrememberIhavebeenverybadatarguingwithpeople．AssoonassomeonedisagreeswithmeIgetangrybecauseIfeelattackedliketheotherpersonisouttoshowthatIamwrong．AndforsomereasonIhatebeingwrong!SomyimmediatereactionistogetverydefensiveIraisemyvoiceandIendupsayingsomethingIlaterregret．Needlesstosaythewholethingendswithmebeatingmyselfupandtheotherpersonfeelingalienated(疏远)fromme．ThisbothersmeespeciallybecausemymotherdoestheexactsamethingandIhateit!

　　IhavenoticedthistendencyinmeforalongtimenowbutIhaveneverbeenabletostop．Ididsomeangermanagementworkwithatherapist(治疗专家)awhileagobutbecauseImovedandturnedtoanadvisoratschoolwhocannotseemeregularlyIhavenotbeenabletocontinuethisimportantwork．Theytellyoutostopandcountto10controlyourbreathingcalmyourselfdownbeforeyoutalk．Butthat'sthewholeproblemIcouldneverthinkofstoppingmyselfuntilitwastoolate!ThehurtfulthingshadalreadycomeoutofmymouthandIwasstuckpickingupthepieces．

　　Rightnowtheproblemisurgentbecausemyrelationshipwithawonderfulboyfriendisindangerbecauseofmyinsecurityandhatredofbeingwrong．HeisclosinghimselfofftomebecauseIhavehurthimandnodoubtIamnolongerattractiveasawomanwithnoconfidenceinherselfandabadtemper．HowdoIstopruiningmyrelationshipsandhatingmyself?HowdoIstophatingbeingwrong?

　　(1)

　　Inwhatsituationwillthewritergetangryeasily?

　　[]A．

　　Whenshehasargumentwithpeople．

　　B．

　　Whenpeopledisagreewithher．

　　C．

　　Whensheisattacked．

　　D．

　　Whenshedoessomethingwrong．

　　(2)

　　Wha