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　　Wecanmakemistakesatanyage．Somemistakeswemakeareaboutmoney.Butmostmistakesareaboutpeople．"DidJerryreallycarewhenIbrokeupwithHelen?""WhenIgotthatgreatjob,didJimreallyfeelgoodaboutit．asafriend?Ordidheenvymyluck?”“AndPanl-whydidn’thepickupthathewasfriendlyjustbecauseIhadanicecar?”Whenwelookback,doubtslikethesecanmakeusfeelbad.Butwhenwelookback．it'stoolate．

　　Whydowegowrongaboutourfriends-orourenemies?Sometimeswhatpeoplesayhidestheirrealmeaning．Andifwedon‘treallylisten,wemissthefeelingbehindthewords．Supposesomeonetellsyou,"Your'realuckydog．"That'sbeingfriendly．But"luckydog"There'sabitofenvyinthosewords．Maybehedoesn’tseeithimself．Butbringinginthephrase“luckydog”putsyoudownalittle．Whathemaybesayingisthathedoesn'tthinkyoudeserveyourluck．

　　"Justthinkofallthethingsyouhavetobethankfulforisanothernoisethatsaysonethingandmeansanother.Itcouldmeanthatthespeakeristryingtogetyoutoseeyourproblemaspartofyourlifeasawhole．Butishe?Wrappedupinthisphraseisthethoughtyou’reyourproblemisn'timportant．It'stellingyoutothinkofallthestarvingpeopleintheworldwhenyouhaven'tgotadateforSaturdaynight．

　　Howcanyoutelltherealmeaningbehindsomeone’swords．Onewayistotakeagoodlookatthepersontalking．Dohiswordstitthewayhelooks?Doeswhathesaysagreewiththetoneofvoice?Hisposture?Thelookinhiseyes?Stopandthink．Theminuteyouspendthinkingabout

　　therealmeaningbehindwhatpeoplesaymaysaveanothermistake．