【Exchangeaglancewithsomeonethenlookaway.Doyourealizethatyouhavemadeastatement?Holdtheglanceforasecondlongerandyouhavemadeadifferentstatement.Holditfor3secondsandthemeaninghaschangedagain.Foreveryso】

　　Exchangeaglancewithsomeonethenlookaway.Doyourealizethatyouhavemadeastatement?Holdtheglanceforasecondlongerandyouhavemadeadifferentstatement.Holditfor3secondsandthemeaninghaschangedagain.Foreverysocialsituationthereisapermissibletimethatyoucanholdaperson’sgazewithoutbeingintimaterudeoraggressive.Ifyouareonanelevatorwhatgaze-timeareyoupermitted?Toanswerthisquestionconsiderwhatyoutypicallydo.Youverylikelygiveotherpassengersaquickglancetosizethemup（打量）andtoassurethemthatyoumeannothreat.Sincebeingclosetoanotherpersonsignalsthepossibilityofinteractionyouneedtosendoutasignaltellingothersyouwanttobeleftalone.SoyoucutoffeyecontactswhatsociologistErvingGoffiman（1963）calls“adimmingofthelights”.Youlookdownatthefloorattheindicatorlightsanywherebutintoanotherpassenger’seyes.Shouldyoubreaktheruleagainststaringatastrangeronanelevatoryouwillmaketheotherpersonextremelyuncomfortableandyouarelikelytofeelabitstrangeyourself

　　Ifyouholdeyecontactsformorethan3secondswhatareyoutellinganotherperson?Muchdependsonthepersonandthesituation.Forinstanceamanandawomancommunicateinterestinthismanner.Theytypicallygazeateachotherforabout3secondsatatimeandthendroptheireyesdownfor3secondsbeforelettingtheireyesmeetagain.Butifonemangivesanothermana3-second-plusstarehesignals“Iknowyou”.“Iaminterestedinyou.”or“YoulookpeculiarandIamcuriousaboutyou.”Thistypeofstareoftenproduceshostilefeelings.

　　1．Itcanbeinferredfromthefirstparagraphthat__________.

　　A．everyglancehasitssignificance（meaningorimportance）

　　B．staringatapersonisanexpressionofinterest

　　C．agazelongerthan3secondsisunacceptable

　　D．aglancecarriesmoremeaningthanwords

　　2．Ifyouwanttobeleftaloneonanelevatorthebestthingtodois________.

　　A．tolookintoanotherpassenger’seyes

　　B．toavoideyecontactswithotherpassengers

　　C．tosignalyouarenotathreattoanyone

　　D．tokeepadistancefromotherpassengers

　　3．By“adimmingofthelights”ErvingGoffimanmeans________.

　　A．closingone’se