BSomepeoplemakeyoufeelcomfortablewhentheyarewithyou.Youspendanhourtalkingtothemandfeelasifyouhaveknownthemhalfyourlife.Thesegoodtalkershavesomethingsimilar.
B
Somepeoplemakeyoufeelcomfortablewhentheyarewithyou.Youspendanhourtalkingtothemandfeelasifyouhaveknownthemhalfyourlife.Thesegoodtalkershavesomethingsimilar.Andonceweknowwhatitiswecantrytodoitourselves.
Firstofallgoodtalkersaskquestions.Almostanyonehowevershyheiswillansweraquestion.Onewellknownbusinesswomansays“AtbusinesslunchesIalwaysaskpeoplewhattheydidthatmorning.Itsacommonquestionbutitwillgetthingsgoing.Fromthereyoucanmoveontoothermatters—sometimestoreallypersonalquestions.Andhowheanswerswillletyouknowhowfaryoucango.
Secondoncegoodtalkershaveaskedquestionstheylistentotheanswers.Yourquestionsshouldhaveapoint.Thishelpstotellwhatkindofpersonyouaretalkingto.Andtofindoutyoureallyhavetolistencarefully.Reallisteningatleastmeanssomethings.Itmeansnottochangethesubjectofconversationveryoften.Ifsomeonesticksto(坚持)onetopicyoucanknowthathesreallyinterestedinit.Moreoverreallisteningalsomeansnotjustlisteningtowordsbuttotones(语调)ofvoice.Ifthevoicesoundsboringthenit’stimeforyoutochangethesubject
Finallygoodtalkersknowwellhowtodealwiththemomentofleaving.Ifyou5resayinggoodbye
youmaygivehimafriendlyhandshakeandsay“I'vereallyenjoyedmeetingyou.”Ifyouwanttoseethat
personagaindon5tkeepitasecret.Letpeopleknowwhatyoufeelandtheymaywalkawayfeelingasifthey’veknownyouhalftheirlife.
()49.Areallistenerisapersonwho.
A.alwaysmakeshisvoicesoundlively B.neverchangesthesubjectofthetalk
C.isgoodatmakinganytopicinteresting D.knowswhentheyshouldchangethetopic
()50.Whichofthefollowingmightagoodtalkersaywhenheisleaving?
A.“Iamlookingforwardtoseeingyouagain.”
B.“Whatdidyoudothismorning?”
C.“Ithinkit’stimetogonow.Goodbye!”
D.“Theweatherisreallynicetoday!”
()51.Ifyoureallyfeelhappywithmeetingsomeoneagain.
A.don'tforgettokeepitasecret
B.it’snecessarytosticktothetopic
C.it’snecessarytol