【BreakingtheCodeOneschoolnightthismonthIwalkedquietlyuptoAlexandermy15-year-oldsonandtouchedhischeekgentlyinamannerIhopedwouldseemcasual.Ayearagohewouldhaveignoredthisdisturbancebutnowhereactedimpatientl】

　　  BreakingtheCodeOneschoolnightthismonthIwalkedquietlyuptoAlexandermy15-year-oldsonandtouchedhischeekgentlyinamannerIhopedwouldseemcasual.Ayearagohewouldhaveignoredthisdisturbancebutnowhereactedimpatientlyandleanedbacktohiscomputerscreen.

　　 Imadeamistake：breakingintomyteenager'spersonalspace."Theaverageteenagerhasprettystrongfeelingsabouthisprivacy"LaraFoxandherfriendHilaryFrankeltoldme.Ms.FrankelandMs.Foxboth17aretheauthorsofBreakingtheCodeanewbookthatseekstobridgethegenerationaldividebetweenparentsandadolescents.Itisbeingpromotedbyitspublisherasthefirstselfhelpguidebyteenagersfortheirparentsakindof"KidsArefromMarsParentsArefromVenus'1thatexplainsthelanguageandactionsofteenagers.Thegirlsdealtwithissuesincludinghangingoutlatemoneyschoolpressuressmokingetc.

　　 PersonallyIwelcometheiropinions.Themostcommonmissteps(失策)ininteractingwithteenagersarisefromthewarbetweenparentsexercisingtheirrightstoknowwhatgoesonundertheirroofandteenagersfirmlyguardingtheirprivacy.Teenagerscanbequicktointerprettheirparents'remarksandrespondwithangerthatmaskstheirvulnerability(脆弱).Ms.Foxsaid"Whatwewantaboveallisyourapproval.Don'tforgetnomatterhowmuchweactasifwedon'tcarewhatyousaywebelievethethingsyousayaboutus."

　　 NancyaNewYorkchildraisingexpertsaidshedidn'tagreewitheverythingtheauthorssuggestedbutfoundtheirargumentsreasonable."Whenyourkidsaresaying'Youdon'tgetitandyouneverwill，therearelotsofwaystorespondsothattheywilllistenandthatiswhatthewriterspointout."

　　 "Myparentshelpedmeseethat”Ms.Foxtoldme"eventhoughtheyusedtostayoutlateandridetheirbicyclestoschooltimeshavechangedandthewayparentseducatechildrenisdifferent.Thesedaysthereisamajorfearfactorinbringingupkids.Parentsworryabouttheirchildcrossingthestreet."Thewriterssaidtheyhopedsimplytothrowlightonteenagethinking.

　　( )1.Whydoestheauthormentionthebook"KidsArefromMarsParentsArefrom'Venus17？

　　   A.Itisoneofthebestsellers.

　　   B.Itisalsowrittenbythetwogirls.

　　   C.Thetwobooksh