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　　Youmightaskwhatafriendlifespanis?

　　Itishowlongyouremaininfriendshipwithsomeoneuntilyoudriftwayfromeachotherforwhateverreason.Somepeopleremainfriendsforalifetime,butsomedodriftapart.

　　Youarenolongerfriendswithyourhighschoolfriend.

　　Youmaynotevenrememberthefriendyoumetduringyourinternship.

　　Aswegrowolder,wemovefromoneplacetoanother,wechangecolleges,workplacesandwekeepmeetingnewpeoplereplenishingthoseweleavebehind.

　　Sowhoisyourbestfriend?

　　Isyourbestfriendfromhighschoolwithwhomyousharedyourbestkeptsecrets,stillyourbestfriend?

　　Orhashealsodriftedsinceyoumovedawayfromyourcityafteryourfirstfulltimejob.

　　Perhapsyourgirlfriendisyourbestfriendnow.

　　Girlsusuallyaregoodatkeepingupwitholdfriends,andtheyusuallymakefriendsforlife,andtheyevensharetheirBoyfriend'ssecretswiththeirbestfriends,butforaguy,usuallyhisdrinkingpartnersbecomehisclosestfriends.

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　　Buttheysaythat'OldisGold',andnevertobesold,usuallyyourchildhoodfriendsandhighschoolfriendsaretheonlyfriendsyouwilleverhaveforyourlifetime.Youcolleagues,yourdrinkingbuddies,andclubbuddieswillcomeandgo,butwhenyouareinneedofhelp,youroldfriendswillstandbyyou.Evenifyoucallyourhighschoolbestfriendafter15yearsofnotcalling,andaskforafavorhewillmostprobablyoblige.Hemightnoteventhinkthatyouarecallingafter15years,andthatisforaskingafavor.

　　Hewillfeelsogoodhearingyourvoicethathewoulddoanythingtohelpyou.Then,whydidweforgetthem.Whydoweforgettocallhimonhisbirthday,orhismarriageanniversary.Howevershortourfriendlifespanwouldbefornewfriends,weshouldalwaystrytokeepintouchwithouroldfriends.

　　Asmallgestureofremembrance,agreetingcardinChristmas,arandominvitationcardforaceremony,callinghimonhisbirthday,lettinghimknowofyourpromotion,ofyourchildbirthetcwillgoalongwayinnurturingyourfriendship.

　　Andthisweshoulddowithallournewfoundanddriftedawayfriendsaswell.Justasyoudriftedawayfromhim,theremustbetensofotherpeopledriftedawayfromhim,buthewillremembertheonewhoremembershim.Whoknows,hemightbecomeyourbestfriend?

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