astoryaboutchange

　　Therewasalittleboy,heisjusteightyearsoldbuthistemperissobad.Hisneighbourfellowscouldnotstandhistempersomostofhisfellowsgetawayfromhim.Hedidn'tknowwhythishappen.Onedayhecametofindhisfathertoaskforareason.Hisfathertoldhimthatyoutemperwassobadthatyoulostalmosteverything.Hisfatherencouragedhimnottobeobsessedwiththis.Hisfathertoldhimaneffectivewaytocontrolhistemper.Everydayyoustrokeanailintoatimber.Afterthirtydaysallthenailshavebeenstrokenintoatimber.Hisfatheraskedhissonhowwasyourfeeling.Hissonwashappytoanswerthatlfoundlcaneasycontrolmytemper.Hisfathersuddenlyaskedhimtogetallthenailsoutofatimber.Hissondidashisfathersaidandtoldhimsometimesbadwords,languagehurtismoreworsethanthehurtfrommental.Theboybegantorealizewhathehasdoneandsaidwasofworsetohisfellows.Helearnedhowtorespectothers.Atlasttherelationshipamonghimandhisfellowshaschanged.Thisisaclassicstorymaybemanyhavereadit.Iwriteitjustforustochangeourtempertowardsourfriendsbecausewewillberespectifwerespectothers

　　Therewasalittleboy,heisjusteightyearsoldbuthistemperissobad.Hisneighbourfellowscouldnotstandhistempersomostofhisfellowsgetawayfromhim.Hedidn'tknowwhythishappen.Onedayhecametofindhisfathertoaskforareason.Hisfathertoldhimthatyoutemperwassobadthatyoulostalmosteverything.Hisfatherencouragedhimnottobeobsessedwiththis.Hisfathertoldhimaneffectivewaytocontrolhistemper.Everydayyoustrokeanailintoatimber.Afterthirtydaysallthenailshavebeenstrokenintoatimber.Hisfatheraskedhissonhowwasyourfeeling.Hissonwashappytoanswerthatlfoundlcaneasycontrolmytemper.Hisfathersuddenlyaskedhimtogetallthenailsoutofatimber.Hissondidashisfathersaidandtoldhimsometimesbadwords,languagehurtismoreworsethanthehurtfrommental.Theboybegantorealizewhathehasdoneandsaidwasofworsetohisfellows.Helearnedhowtorespectothers.Atlasttherelationshipamonghimandhisfellowshaschanged.Thisisaclassicstorymaybemanyhavereadit.Iwriteitjustforustochangeourtempertowardsourfriendsbecausewewillberespectifwerespectothers

　　或下面这个更好

　　NeverTooLatetoChange

　　Ageisnocriterionwhenitcomestochangingyourlife.

　　Infact,itmightbejusttheopposite.

　　Theolderweget,themorewemustchange.

　　Changeiswhatkeepsusfreshandinnovative.

　　Changeiswhatkeepsusfromgettingstaleandstuckinarut.

　　Changeiswhatkeepsusyoung.

　　Thisisnoteasy.

　　Whenweareyoungit'seasytochangeandexperimentwithdifferentthings.

　　Theolderwegetthemoresetinourwayswebecome.

　　We'vefoundoutwhatourcomfortlevelis,andweallwanttostayinit.

　　Wedon'twanttoberisktakersanymore,becauseriskfrightensus,

　　andsimplynotchangingseemssoeasy.

　　Wemustfightthroughthis.

　　Wemustlookfearstraightintheeyeandtakeiton.

　　Wemusttellourselvesthatwehavetoomuchtalent,toomuchwisdom,

　　toomuchvaluenottochange.

　　IbelievethatJim,whoisonmystaff,

　　isoneofthebestassistantcoachesinthecountry.

　　ButIalmostdidn'thirehimthreeyearsago

　　becauseIthoughtthatpsychologic