记得儿子四岁的时候,院子里的小朋友每天傍晚都会在楼下骑自行车,每次带他经过时问他“妈妈也给你买辆自行车学着骑好不好?”,可他的回答却总是“不喜欢”.开始我还没在意,可是时间长了就有点纳闷了,哪有小孩子不喜欢骑自行车的呢?在我多次的“盘问”之下,儿子才说出了大实话,原来小家伙害怕别的小孩子取笑他不会骑车,所以连学都不愿意.我心里在想,现在的小孩子可真精明,都知道用谎话来掩饰自己的不足,真不知是应该高兴还是忧心.

　　这时我开始了长篇大论来开导他“没有哪个小孩子天生就会骑车的,你是这样,别的小朋友是这样,就连妈妈也是通过学习才会骑自行车的呀”.在我的一番开导下,他终于答应学习骑自行车了,结果一个下午他就学会了,到现在他都能骑着自行车上学了.

　　Irememberatimewhenhissonwasfour,inthecourtyardofthechildrenaredownstairsintheeveningeverydayridingabike,everytimewhenyouaskedhimtotakehimthroughthe"Momwouldalsoliketobuyabicyclelearntoride,OK?",Buthisanswerwasalways"donotlike."Ididnotcareaboutstarting,butalongtimeonabitpuzzled,andhowcanchildrendonotlikeridingabikefor?Inmymanytimesof"interrogation"underhissonwastosayabigtruth,theoriginalfearoftheotherkidsmakefunoflittleguysthathewouldnotride,soarereluctanttoevenlearn.Isaidtomyselfwasthinking,nowkidscanbereallysmart,knowshowtobealietocovertheirowninadequacies,Ireallydonotknowshouldbehappyorworried.

　　ThenIbeganalengthyspeechcometotalktohis"nochildwillbebornwithbicycle,youaresothatotherchildrenisthecase,evenmymotherisonlythroughlearningtorideabicycle呀."Insomeenlightenme,hefinallyagreedtolearntorideabike,andtheresultsofanafternoonhelearnedthatbynowhecanrideabiketoschool.

　　｛是看自己的感受得,