DearFriends:

　　IhadtosaythatnowinChina,theideaaboutthefamilychangedalot.

　　IntraditionalChina,alltheextendedfamilymemberslivetogether.ThetopleaderofthebigfamilywasnormallytheGrandmaorGrandpaandtheywouldgettherespectionfromallthemembersofthefamily.Theywereinchargeofthemembers'education,marriageandtheirnextgeneration'sthings.Theywoldlikethekingorqueenathomeandtheywouldnotberejectedwhentheywereexpressinganyideaabouttheeventshappened.

　　Now,cozthebirthplanningisexecutedinChinaandmanyyoungersgotthejobsoutsietheirhomwtowns,theculturewaschangedsofast,manybigfamilileswerebrokenintoseveralsmallfamilies.Thepolicyof"onefamily,onebaby"madethoselittleboysandgirlsgottenmorelovefromtheirparentsorgrandparents,theybecamethekingsorqueensalready.Theselittlekingsandqueenshavemoreideasaboutanything,theylearnsomethingfasterandfollowedthechangingsociety,theymaybewouldnotlistentotheirgrandparentsagainandpaylessrespectiontothem.

　　However,differentsociety,differenttypeoffamily.