Howshouldtheinterpersonalharmony

　　Howshouldtheinterpersonalharmony?Thisiseveryonemustfacetheproblem.Someonesays,interpersonalshouldwithsincerity,wecall"sincere",Somepeoplesaid,peoplegetalongwithbefriendly,whichwecall"friendly",Somepeoplethink,"everybodyarebrothers!"Itcanbecalled"brothersaid,Somepeoplethinkthatpeoplegetalong,facewanttobethick,blackheart,wecall"jorgeposadasaid,Thencreated"classsaid,"thinkpeoplegetalong,toseeeachotherfromclass:capitalists,richagainstbadright?Oraworker,poorfarmers?"Benevolenceandnotclose,theclasspoints".

　　These"said,"nowthatismade,hasitsreasonin.Idon'twanttothicknon.Ijustwanttohere,totherelationships,anewview.Statement

　　Goldyongmastertheroleofhuangrong,thereisabeautifulclever,intellectualprogrammistakesgirl-huang2rong2,herrepeateddangerandremainunaffected.Afterbeingyang2kangslamonezhang,notonlywasnotinjured,insteadofmakingyang2kangpoisoninganddie.Itsmystery?Justbecausesheworea"softWeiarmour",havehurttheenemyalreadyrole.

　　ThereforeIasknewopinionisthatinhumanrelationships,everyoneshouldbeputona"softWeiarmour"-likeahedgehog,asathorn,canbetterprotectyourself,letoneselflittlesufferdamagepoint.

　　So,therelationshipbetweenthepeopleshallbeastherelationshipbetweenthehedgehog:whateverpeople,areclotheda"softWeiarmour"besides,allremainalittledistanceagain.Ifnottopreventoneselfpersonright,preventotherpeopleorpreventoneselfpersonmouthamongbigunintentionallysaywhat,letax-grinderslistentogotoconveniencetoharmmealwaysbeok.Maybekindpersonsay:"can't?Itgotsackings?"Havecrisisfeelingthantolosecompletelyalertisgood,have"softWeiarmour"self-defenseisbetterthannothingself-defense."ShuYuJingErFengBuZhi-youharmlesspersonofheart,butothersbutbadforyourheart.Suchasmountguard100pickupa,suchaspromotiontenpickupa,likethehouse,suchastheunitpoints,suchasyoufindtheliftstemobjectyoufriendalsoattracts...whoeverhastheformidablehavetried,frame-upandfordefamation,splashedthedirtywater...thiskindofexamplelittlestill?

　　Today'ssociety,thecompetitionistoointense,begbowlmealisdifficult.Andavarietyofconsumerspending,inparticular,andit'sliketheirdoctor,reading,housing,married...So,differentkindsofthieves,liars,legerdemaineverywhere,evenhurtkillingthingsoccuroccasionally.Wedon'tmulti-pointheart,andnotmulti-pointegotoprotectconsciousnesscandoit?This"multipointblinds,multipointegotoprotectconsciousness"isa"softWeiarmour"

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　　人与人之间应如何相处

　　人与人之间应如何相处?这是每一个人都必须面对的问题.有人说,人与人之间应真诚相待,我们称之为“真诚说”；有的人说,人与人相处要友好,我们称之为“友好说”；有的人认为,“天下人皆兄弟也!”故可称之为“兄弟说”；有的人认为人与人相处,脸皮要厚、心要黑,我们称之为“厚黑说”；后来又产生了“阶级说”,认为人与人相处,要看对方出身的阶级：资本家、地富反坏右?还是工人、贫下中农?“亲不亲,阶级分”.

　　这些“说”,既然被提出,自有它的道理在.我不想厚非.我只想在这里,对人与人的关系,陈述一种新的看法.

　　金庸大师的《射雕英雄传》里,有一个美丽聪明、智计百出的小姑娘－－－黄蓉,她多次身陷险境,却安然无恙.后被杨康猛击一掌,不但没受伤,反而让杨康中毒而死.其奥秘何在?就因为她穿了一件“软猬甲”,起到了伤敌保已的作用.

　　故我提的新看法是：在人与人的交往中,每个人应穿上一件“软猬甲”－－－像刺猬一样,一身刺,可以比较好的保护自己,让自己少受一点伤害.

　　所以,人与人之间的关系应如刺猬之间的关系：不管什么人,都披一身"软猬甲’再说,都保持一点距离再说.就算不防自己人吧,防别的人或防自己人嘴大无心之中说出什么,让别有用心的人听去方便害我总可以吧.也许善良的人说：这不搞得人