HowtoLiveinHarmonywithyourRoommates

　　HowtoLiveinHarmonywithyourRoommates?Everyonehashisanswer.Inmyopinion,toLiveinHarmonywithyourRoommates,oneshould:

　　Firstly,keepthesamepacewithroommates.Thereareusuallyfourpeopleormoreinaroom.It’sbettertohaveaunifiedschedule.Tomaintaintheorderofthelife,everyoneshouldcoordinateandabidebythescheduletoreducethedisputes.

　　Secondly,don’tmakelittle“squads”inthedormitory.Youshouldtreateverypersonequallyratherthandiscriminatingorisolatingsomeone.Weobjecttoestablishdeepfriendshipunderthecostofsacrificingthefriendship’swidthandbreadth.It’simportanttokeepbalanceinthedormitory.

　　Thirdly,don'tinvadeyourroommates'privacy.Everyonehastheirownsecretsandeccentricities.Weshouldnotsearchroommates'privacy.Ifsomeonehasclearlymadeafieldprivate,theymusthavespecialsensitivetothisfieldandanysubjectattemptingtobreakintothisfieldwillnotbeappreciatedbythem.

　　Fourthly,participateindormitory’scollectiveactivitiesactively.Theactivitiesofthedormitoryisnotonlyasimpleactivity,butalsoawaytocontactwitheachothertosharefeelings.Don'tbenaivetothinkcollectiveactivityasboringanduselessactionwhichwastestimeandmoney,andshowingapairofdisparagingappearanceforcompany.Infact,it'sallemotionalinvestment,andindispensable.

　　Fifth,providehelpandaskforhelp.Goodroommaterelationshipsisbasedonmutualhelp.Whenroommatesmeetwithdifficulties,weshouldvoluntarilyhelp.That’sobvious.So,whenwehavesometrouble,isitappropriatetoaskhelpfromroommates?Theanswerisyes.Becausesometimesaskingforhelpshowthatyoutrustyourroommates,whichcandeepenyourrelationship.