AReason,Season,orLifetime
Peoplecomeintoyourlifeforareason,aseason,oralifetime.Whenyoufigureoutwhichoneitis,youwillknowwhattodoforeachperson.
WhensomeoneisinyourlifeforaREASON,itisusuallytomeetaneedyouhaveexpressed.Theyhavecometoassistyouthroughadifficulty,toprovideyouwithguidanceandsupport,toaidyouphysically,emotionally,orspiritually.Theyarethereforthereasonyouneedthemtobe,Thenwithoutanywrongdoingonyourpart,orataninconvenienttime,thispersonwillsayordosomethingtobringtherelationshiptoanend,Sometimestheywalkaway,Sometimestheyactupandforceyoutotakeastand.Sometimestheydie,Whatwemustrealizeisthatourneedhasbeenmet.Ourdesirefulfilled,theirworkisdone.Yourneedhasbeenanswered,andnowitistimetomoveon.
WhenpeoplecomeintoyourlifeforaSEASON,itisbecauseyourturnhascometoshare,grow,orlearn.Theybringyouanexperienceofpeace,ormakeyoulaugh.Theymayteachyousomethingyouhaveneverdone.Theyusuallygiveyouanuvbelievableamountofjoy.Believeit!Itisreal!But,onlyforaseason.
LIFETIMErelationshipsteachyoulifetimelessons;thingsyoumustbuilduponinordertohaveasolidemotionalfoundation.Yourjobistoacceptthelesson,lovetheperson,andputwhatyouhavelearnedtouseinallotherrelationshipsandareasofyourlife.Itissaidthatloveisblindbutfriendshipisclairvoyant.