IfIamaparent,Iwill.

　　Firstofall,Iwilltrustmychildren,letthemknowIlovethem,letthemknowthatIcareaboutthemverymuch,letthemfeelwarmandsafety.

　　Secondly,Iwillmakeconversationswithchildrenoften.Acturally,

　　there'snogenarationgapbetweenparentsandchildren,ifyoualwaysexchangeyouropionwithyourchildren.

　　Third,ifmychildernwanttokeephisorherownsecrets,wanttodosomethinganddon'twanttotellme(Igesseverychildrenwanttodothat),ifthatthingdoesn'tmakeaseriousmistake(likebreakthelaw),Iwillallowthemtodoeveniftheywillfail--atleastit'sagoodexperienceforthem.

　　Finaly,sometimesbeinglikeakid,haveachildlike,imaginewhatifyouareachild,thenyouwillunderstandyourchildren.

　　It'snotdifficult,isn'tthat?