题目：Father’sDay正文：WhenIwasfive,mybiologicalfathercommittedsuicide.ItleftmefeelingasthoughI'ddonesomethingwrong;thatifIhadbeenbettersomehow,maybehe'dhavestayedaround.Mymotherremarriedshortlythereafter,andthismanwasmydaduntilIwasnineteen.IcalledhimDadandusedhisnameallthroughschool.But,whenheandmymotherdivorced,hejustwalkedaway.Onceagain,IwonderedwhatwaswrongwithmethatIcouldn'tkeepafather.Motherremarriedagain,andBobwasawonderful,kindman.Iwastwentynowandnolongerlivingathome,butIfeltagreatloveandattachmentforhim.Afewyearslatermymotherwasdiagnosedwithcancerandwasnotgivenlongtolive.Shortlybeforeshedied,Bobcameovertomyhousealoneoneday.Wetalkedaboutalotofthings,andthenhetoldmethathewantedmetoknowthathe'dalwaysbethereforme,evenafterMotherwasgone.Thenheaskedifhecouldadoptme.Icouldhardlybelievemyears.Tearsstreameddownmyface.Hewantedme-me!Thismanhadnoobligationtome,buthewasreachingoutfromhisheart,andIaccepted.Duringtheadoptionproceedings,thejudgecommentedonalltheundesirabledutiesofhisprofessionandthenwithatearinhiseye,thankedusforbrighteninghisdayashepronouncedusfatheranddaughter.Iwastwenty-five,butIwashislittlegirl.Threeshortyearslater,Bob,too,wasdiagnosedwithcancerandwasgonewithintheyear.AtfirstIwashurtandangryatGodfortakingthisfatherawaytoo.ButeventuallytheloveandacceptancethatIfeltfromDadcamethroughagain,andIbecame,oncemore,gratefulfortheyearswehad.OnFather'sDayIalwaysreflectonwhatI'velearnedaboutfatherhood.I'velearnedthatitisnotdependentonbiologyorevenonraisingachild.Fatherhoodisamatteroftheheart.Bob'sgiftfromtheheartwillwarmmysoulforeternity.