完形填空Aseven-year-oldboy,withhisfamily,wasinspectinganewcar,onewithametalstrip(条纹)lookinglikewood.“Dad,”theboywhispered,“don’t1thiswoodrot."Hewasjoltedwhenhisfatherstartedlaughing.Then,whenthefather
完形填空
Aseven-year-oldboy,withhisfamily,wasinspectinganewcar,onewithametalstrip(条纹)lookinglikewood.“Dad,”theboywhispered,“don’t1thiswoodrot."Hewasjoltedwhenhisfatherstartedlaughing.Then,whenthefather2hisprivateremarkwiththesalesman,andhelaughed,theboyfelt3.Some30yearslater,nowafatherhimself,themanoftenthinksofthis4wheneverhisownchildrensaysomethingthatisunintentionallyfunny.
Mostparentsare5bysuchreactionsbecausetheydon’tunderstandhowdeeplyachild6shame."Alltoooftenwedon’tseeorhearwhatisreally7ourchildren,"saysKaoruYamamoto,apsychologist(心理学家)attheUniversityofColoradoatDenver.
Yamamoto’ssurveys8thatchildrenareafraidoflosing9:beingthoughtofasunattractive,stupidor10.Itismoretroublingtowettheirpants(裤子)inclass,getabadreportcardor11agradethanitistobeconfronted(面临)byarival(竞争)babybrotherorsistersituationsaparentmight12tobemostdisturbing.Forachild,ablowtoself-esteem,thesenseofbeingworthy,isa13thingtoendure(忍受).
Triggering(触发)thisfear,amongotherthings,istheexperienceofbeinglostina14place,ofseeingtheirparentsfight,15whenthereisviolence.Betweentwothirdsandthreequartersofthechildrensurveyedhaveexperiencedthe16ofparentalfighting,andit17themafraidthattheirmotherandfatheraregoingtogetdivorcedjustthenoiseofthequarrelcanbefrightening.
"Inlisteningtochildren,itis18nottobetouchedbytheirprofoundsenseofvulnerability(脆弱),"saysYamamoto."Theyareafraidofbeingleft19,fearfulofwhatliesaheadanduncertainofwhattheycando.Theyarefundamentally(基本地)dependentupon20inthefaceofupsettingandunpredictableevents."
1.A.buyB.believeC.acceptD.mind
2.A.startedB.sparedC.sharedD.exchanged
3.A.pleasedB.afraidC.surprisedD.ashamed
4.A.occasionB.storyC.funD.event
5.A.delightedB.puzzledC.entertainedD.challenged
6.A.facesB.dealsC.fearsD.hates
7.A.interestingB.hurtingC.affectingD.troubling
8.A.showB.informC.appearD.prove
9.A.interestB.courageC.faceD.freedom
10.A.uncleanB.dishonestC.un