完形填空Aseven-year-oldboy,withhisfamily,wasinspectinganewcar,onewithametalstrip(条纹)lookinglikewood.“Dad,”theboywhispered,“don’t1thiswoodrot."Hewasjoltedwhenhisfatherstartedlaughing.Then,whenthefather

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　　Aseven-year-oldboy,withhisfamily,wasinspectinganewcar,onewithametalstrip(条纹)lookinglikewood.“Dad,”theboywhispered,“don’t1thiswoodrot."Hewasjoltedwhenhisfatherstartedlaughing.Then,whenthefather2hisprivateremarkwiththesalesman,andhelaughed,theboyfelt3.Some30yearslater,nowafatherhimself,themanoftenthinksofthis4wheneverhisownchildrensaysomethingthatisunintentionallyfunny.

　　Mostparentsare5bysuchreactionsbecausetheydon’tunderstandhowdeeplyachild6shame."Alltoooftenwedon’tseeorhearwhatisreally7ourchildren,"saysKaoruYamamoto,apsychologist（心理学家）attheUniversityofColoradoatDenver.

　　Yamamoto’ssurveys8thatchildrenareafraidoflosing9:beingthoughtofasunattractive,stupidor10.Itismoretroublingtowettheirpants（裤子）inclass,getabadreportcardor11agradethanitistobeconfronted(面临)byarival（竞争）babybrotherorsistersituationsaparentmight12tobemostdisturbing.Forachild,ablowtoself-esteem,thesenseofbeingworthy,isa13thingtoendure（忍受）.

　　Triggering（触发）thisfear,amongotherthings,istheexperienceofbeinglostina14place,ofseeingtheirparentsfight,15whenthereisviolence.Betweentwothirdsandthreequartersofthechildrensurveyedhaveexperiencedthe16ofparentalfighting,andit17themafraidthattheirmotherandfatheraregoingtogetdivorcedjustthenoiseofthequarrelcanbefrightening.

　　"Inlisteningtochildren,itis18nottobetouchedbytheirprofoundsenseofvulnerability（脆弱）,"saysYamamoto."Theyareafraidofbeingleft19,fearfulofwhatliesaheadanduncertainofwhattheycando.Theyarefundamentally（基本地）dependentupon20inthefaceofupsettingandunpredictableevents."

　　1.A.buyB.believeC.acceptD.mind

　　2.A.startedB.sparedC.sharedD.exchanged

　　3.A.pleasedB.afraidC.surprisedD.ashamed

　　4.A.occasionB.storyC.funD.event

　　5.A.delightedB.puzzledC.entertainedD.challenged

　　6.A.facesB.dealsC.fearsD.hates

　　7.A.interestingB.hurtingC.affectingD.troubling

　　8.A.showB.informC.appearD.prove

　　9.A.interestB.courageC.faceD.freedom

　　10.A.uncleanB.dishonestC.un