[Translation]survey:Halfofthechildrenexperiencesomethinghappyornothappy,theyaremostwillingtosharetheobjectsarefriendsratherthanparentswithhighschoolstudentsalreadyhaveastrongindependentself-consciousnessisverymuchrelated,while,hadtoadmitthatbetweenparentsandchildrenarenotsmoothcommunication,areblockingthemindsofthechildrentospeakout.

　　Optionsinsecondplaceisthe"keepournosesdidnotsay"(17%),followedby"Parentscanbe"(13%).Showsthatmorechildrenwouldprefertosimmerinsilenceratherthantelltheirparents.Suchdataarealsowarningusthattheheartsofchildrenandparents,betweenthedoorsareclosed.

　　Expertshavepointedout,thechildrenenteradolescence,theirsenseofindependenceandself-consciousnessisincreasing,theyaremorewillingthanthechildtocommunicatewiththeirpeers,butwhentheyencounterdifficultiesoftenfindtheirmosttrustedtocommunicate,thissurveyThedatashowthatparentstrusttheirchildrenisdeclining.

　　Thisdistrustcanbefoundinthesurveyarealsoreasonsforthesurveywhenasked"parentssneakingapeekatyourdiary,mobilephone-likeprivacy?"24%ofthechild'sansweris"sometimesseen",7%ofthethechildsaid,"hasalwaysbeenlikethis,"only43%oftherespondentsfeltthattheirparents,"I'veneverseen."NearLiuChengchildrenandtheirparentsexistsbetweenthedifferentlevelsofdistrust,whichisprobablywhatparentsofchildreninfrontofoneofthereasonsthedoorclosedbodycenterbar.

　　调查显示：有一半的孩子遇到开心或不开心的事情时,他们最愿意分享的对象是朋友而不是父母,这与高中生已经具有很强的独立自我意识有很大关系,同时,不得不承认,父母与孩子之间不畅通的沟通方式,正阻碍着孩子把心里话说出来.

　　选项中排在第二位的是“闷着不说”(17%),之后是“父母都可”(13%).可见,更多的孩子宁可把话憋在心里而不是告诉父母.这样的数据也在警告我们,孩子和父母之间的心门正在关上.

　　有专家指出,孩子进入青春期,他们的独立意识和自我意识都在增强,他们会比小时候更加愿意与同龄人沟通,但是当他们遇到困难时通常会找自己最信得过的人沟通,本次调查的数据显示,孩子对父母的信任度正在下降.

　　这种不信任在调查中也能找到原因,调查中当问到“父母偷看过你的日记、手机之类的隐私吗?”24%的孩子的回答是“有时看过”、7%的孩子表示“一直如此”,只有43%的人认为自己的父母“从没看过”.近六成的孩子与父母之间存在着程度不同的不信任,这也许正是孩子在父母面前关上心门的原因之一吧.

　　互相尊重是打开心门的万能钥匙,专家说.