Fathernottoputthesonasachild,buttoregardhimasaindependentman.Trynottospeakthetruthtoeachother,evenifthistruthissureasagun,Ijustputthistruthasanexpressionofthem;fortheotherworld,don'tbother,notintothebackseatdriver,nottolearnbyheart;communicatewitheachotherandGodwillleadtheway.

　　父亲不要再把儿子当做孩子,而要把他当做一个独立的男人.尽量不向他讲道理,哪怕这道理千真万确,我只是把这道理作为一种体会表达出来而已；对彼此的世界,不打扰,不闯入,不指手画脚；学会用心领神会的方式与对方交流.