英语翻译WHETHERyoulikeitornot,yourparentsareresponsible(负责任的)foryou,atleastuntilyou’reoutofhighschool.Butdoesitfeellikeyourparentsarestressingyououtwiththeirlove?Doyouoftenfightwiththem?HuMuqing,16,o

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　　WHETHERyoulikeitornot,yourparentsareresponsible(负责任的)foryou,atleastuntilyou’reoutofhighschool.Butdoesitfeellikeyourparentsarestressingyououtwiththeirlove?Doyouoftenfightwiththem?

　　HuMuqing,16,ofShenyang,complainsthathisparentsareonlyconcerned(关心)abouthisgradesandnothisotherneeds.HeandhisparentsfightthemostaboutthetimehespendswatchingTVandontheInternet.

　　“TheythinkbecauseI’minhighschoolIshouldconcentrateonmywork,”theShenyangteenagersaid.

　　“However,Ineedtobeabletorelax.MostofmyfriendscanwatchTVandsurftheWebalot.Sometimesit’shardtotalktothem.”

　　Aftersomenegotiations(商谈),HuhasbeenallowedtowatchTVfor15to20minuteseverynight,buthasbeentoldtokeepawayfromthecomputer.

　　Sinceshefeelsshe’sgrownupnow,ShenYing,17,wantsmorerespectfromherparents.

　　“Myfatheryells(大叫)atmewhenhe’sinabadmood(情绪).Hedoesn’tlistentome,butinsteadactslike,‘I’mtheboss’!”saidtheteenagerfromJianyang,Sichuanprovince.“I’dlikemyparentstotreatmelikeafriendandunderstandthatrespectisatwo-waystreet.”

　　LuYiting,15,ofShantou,hasadifferentproblemwithherparents.Theythinkshespendstoomuchtimewithherfriendsandisfallingintobadcompany.

　　“Iwanttrustfrommyparents,”Lusaid.

　　It’stheagewhenteenagersarebecomingmoreindependent(独立的).Buttheirparentsareveryconcernedabouttheirkids’futures,saidSunYunxiao,aseniorresearcherattheChinaYouthandChildrenResearchCenter.

　　Sunsuggeststhatteenagersshouldlearntocommunicatewiththeirparentseffectively(有效地).

　　“Findtherighttimeforatalk.OnMother’sDayorFather’sDay,say‘Thankyou’toyourparentsorgivethemasmallgiftwithalettersotheycangetinsideyourheadalittle,”headvised.

　　Sunalsobelievesthatteenagershavetoworktoearntrustandrespectfromtheirparents.

　　“Youneedtomakesuretheyknowthatyou’renotgoingtoscrewup(搞砸)yourexamsorletthemdown.Letthemknowthatyouwanttodowell,andthatyouwilldowell,”hesaid.