OK中文:也许你应该学会放松凯瑟·泰勒的三个孩子的生活十分繁忙.他们的学习生活已经很忙了,凯瑟还带她的两个儿子从足球场带到篮球场,带她的女儿去钢琴训练班.这些疲倦的孩子在晚上7点后才能回到家.他们快速地吃完晚饭,然后去做家庭作业.泰勒家就像很多美国和英国的家长一样,他们带孩子们参加课外活动,努力让孩子们适应这样的生活.医生说很多孩子都生活在巨大的压力下.教师们也在抱怨在教室里教授疲倦的孩子.很多孩子都参加了课外俱乐部.包括体育运动,外语学习,音乐和数学课程.强迫孩子的家长并不是什么新鲜事,但是现在的家长越来越严重地强迫孩子.家长看到别人的孩子学了很多东西,他们就认为自己的也应该这样.琳达·米勒,伦敦一位三个孩子的母亲,很清楚这些压力.“在一些家庭里,竞争在孩子们很小时就形成了.”她说“母亲们在孩子很小时就把他们送到各种各样的训练班,她们还经常把自己的孩子与别人的相比.这真是太疯狂了.家长们不应该这么严厉地强迫孩子.”艾丽斯·格林医生同意她的看法.她说这样下去,等孩子们长大了,他们会发现为自己考虑是件很困难的事.家长们总是努力为孩子们计划好他们的生活.等这些孩子长成成人,他们会发现为自己打算是件很困难的事.家长们应该学会留给孩子们一些自己的时间.一方面,孩子们需要课外活动.另一方面,他们也需要时间和自由去放松,他们需要时间自己去做一些事.英语:MaybeyoushouldlearntorelaxKaiserTaylor'sthreechildren'slifeisverybusy.Theystudylifealreadyverybusy,Kaiserstilltakehertwosonsfromsoccertobasketballcourts,tookherdaughtertothepianolessons.Thetiredchildrenafterat7p.m.togetbackhome.Theyquicklyafterdinnerandthentodohomework.TaylorhomelikemanyAmericanandBritishparentsliketheytookthechildrenextracurricularactivities,trytogetthekidstoadapttothiskindoflife.Doctorssaymanychildrenarelivinginundergreatpressure.Teachersintheclassroomhavealsocomplainedthatthechildren.ProfessortiredManychildrenwereinvolvedintheextracurricularclub.Includingsports,musicandlanguagelearningmathematicscurriculum,.Forcedchild'sparentsandisnothingnew,butnowmoreandmoreseriouslyforcedparentsofchildren.Parentsseesomeoneelse'schildrenlearnalotofthingstheythinktheirshould,too.Lindamiller,Londonisamotherofthreechildren,clearthesepressures."Insomefamilies,competitioninchildrenarehoursisformed."Shesaid"mothersonchildisveryhoursentthemtoallkindsofcourses,theyoftenleavetheirchildrencomparedwithothers.Thisisreallycrazy.Parentsshouldnottoforcechildrensoharshly."AliceGreenedoctorsagreewithherviews.Shesaidthiscontinues,thechildrengrewup,theywouldfindforownconsiderationisdifficult.Parentsalwayshardforthechildrenplannedtheirlives.Thesechildrengrowasadults,theywillfindthatdecideforthemselvesisdifficult.Parentsshouldlearntoleavethechildrensometimetomyself.Ontheonehand,childrenneedextracurricularactivities.Ontheotherhand,theyalsoneedtimeandfreedomtorelax,theyneedtimetodoyourownsomething.