Manyofuswouldliketobecomecloserwithourmomsanddads．（36）___Thismaytakesometime，especiallyifyourrelationshipisn'tthebestbutwithalittlepatienceandsomeofthefollowingtips，youcanbecomefriendswithyourparents

　　Manyofuswouldliketobecomecloserwithourmomsanddads．（36）___Thismaytakesometime，especiallyifyourrelationshipisn'tthebestbutwithalittlepatienceandsomeofthefollowingtips，youcanbecomefriendswithyourparents．

　　Workthroughpastscarsandnegativity．

　　Ifyouhavechildhoodissuescausedbyyourparents，you'llneedtoworkthroughthem．（37）___Forgivenessisanimportantelementhere，becausewithoutitthepastwillariseinthepresentdayasangerandharm．It'shardtobefriendswithsomeonewhenyoucan'tgetoverthewaythingsusedtobe．

　　（38）___

　　Sometimesparentsandchildrennaturallybecomefriendsasthechildrengetolder．Butothertimes，however，parentsandchildrenhaven'thadachancetobondasadults，（39）___Ortheyjustneverapproachedtheirrelationshipfromthestandpointoffriendship．It'sanadjustmentthattakessometime，butcanhappen．

　　Haveapositivefriendshipwithyourparents．

　　Becomingfriendswithyourparentsshouldbeapositiveexperienceoverall．Ifyou'reunsurehowtobegin，startbyexpressingyourinterestinafriendshipwiththem．Hearingyousaythatyoudesirethischangeinyourrelationshipwillprobablymakethemfeelgood．（40）___

　　A．Itisratherdifficulttolivewithparents．

　　B．Perhapstheydon'tsharethesameinterests．

　　C．Developsharedinterestswithyourparents．

　　D．Childrenprefertorelyonthemselvesinsteadofparents．

　　E．Asaresult，they'llbemorewillingtoworktowardfriendship．

　　F．Youshouldputthepastbehindsoyoucanforgiveyourparents．

　　G．Afriendshipwithyourparentscanmakeyouappreciatethemmore．