Weevertalkaboutthemsinceparticipateinsocietyactivities,differentpeoplehavedifferentfeeling,vision,experienceofthem,evennow,Ireallydon’tknowwhat‘stheexactmeanofalove,butIhavesomeineffablefeelingsinmyinnerheart,maybethatislove.Therewouldhavesomedifferentmeaningsindifferentperiodduringamanandawomanmet,fallsinlovewitheachotherandgotmarried.Afeelingofintensedesireandattractiontowardapersonwithwhomoneisdisposedtomakeapair;andtheemotionofsexandromancemakesthemmetandfallsinlovewitheachotherandgotmarried.Marriagechangedittoadeep,tender,ineffablefeelingofaffectionandsolicitude.Fallinloveatfirstsightmaybeonlyneedsafewmilliseconds,butarealloveprocessisaseriesofactions,changes,bringingloverstogether.Loveisthefoundationofmarriage,andmarriagemakesitsteady.Theymarriedbecauseoflove,andeachofthemwantsiskindtoeachotherandloveseachother,compatiblewithhisorherweaknesses,Problemsandsolutionsaremixedwithlove;mostofthemareunexpectedbecausetheyarecausedbythemostordinary,everydayitems.Myloveandattractionmovedforwardtofamily,children,careerandsoon,sothatmakesmywifecomplainaboutit,apersuasiveexplanationisnecessaryandletherknowthatlovingneverstopswhateverIamdoing.