本文四个角色的名字最好改掉.我是以男生的角度写的,请见谅.

　　Me:Hi!Ihaven'tseenyouguysinalongtime!

　　Friend1:Imissedyousomuch.

　　Friend2:Iheardyouaregettingmarried?

　　Friend3:Oh,really?Whydidn'tyoutellus?

　　Friend4:Wow,you'regoingtobebusy!

　　Me:Yes,I'malreadyverybusy,soevendoubtitifiwouldhaveanyfreetimeaftermarrying.

　　Friend1:Butloveisalwaysthemostimportantthinginlife!

　　Friend2:Yes,andyourgirlfriendmusthavewaitedthisforalongtime.

　　Friend3:Youwillnotthinkthesameafteryouhavekid.Thenyouwillbehappynomatterifyouarebusyornot.

　　Friend4:Oh,havingababyisREALLYgoingtoruinyourlife.Don'tlistentohim(pointingatFriend3).

　　Me:Iamactuallythinkingaboutthis.IwonderifIshouldhaveababywithinthefirsttwoyearsaftermymarriage.

　　Friend1:Ifyouhaveababythatsoon,wewon'tgettohangoutthatoftenanymore!

　　Friend3:Youshould!Akidcansweepawaymuchofyoursadnessanddistresswhenyouarefrustrated.

　　Friend2:YouWILLbebusier,butyoucanactuallyenjoytheprocessofraisingakid.

　　Friend4:DONOTgetababy!Well,atleastnotthatfast.Youshouldenjoythiswonderfulworldasmuchasyoucanbeforeyoudie.AndhavingababyisNOTgoingtohelp.

　　Me:Hmm.ButIheardthathavingababycouldmaintainamarriagebetterthanwithoutababy.

　　Friend4:That'sjustamyth!Thequalityofmarriageisdeterminedbyyouandyourwifeyourselves,notothersidefactors.

　　Friend3:Iactuallydothinkthathavingababyhelps,becausethisisoneofthefewcommoninterestandconcernbetweenyouandyourwife.

　　Friend2:Umm,Ithinkitmighthelpalittle,butnotthatquickly,sincewithintwoyears,youandyourwifewouldstillbehavingasweetlifeoflove.

　　Friend1:Yes!Treatyourbabylikeatoyandraisingitwouldbeachancetoplaywithyourwife.Lifewillbefilledwithfun!

　　Me:Sohowdoyouguysfeelaboutyourlifeafterhavingkids?

　　Friend1:Lifeissofunwiththekids!BeforeIhadthesecuteangels,Iusedtosticktomycomputeralldaylong,evenafterIgotmarried!Iknowthatisabadhabitanditisharmingmyhealth,butIamsodependentupontheinternetthatIcouldn'tresist.However,aftermykidswereborn,Ifeeltheresponsibilitiesofbeingafather.Irealizedthattheselittlecreaturesarefromme!Ineedtotakecareofthem.

　　Friend2:Havingkidsarenice,andyouwillrealizelaterthatkidsaremandatoryinmaintainingagoodfamily.IagreewithFriend1.BeforeIhadkids,lifetomeisjustfoolingaroundacoupleofyearsandyougotothetomb.ButmymindchangedafterIhadkids.IfiguredoutthatfromnowonInotonlyliveformyself,Ialsoneedtoliveformykids.Ineedtoseethemgrowupandbehappy.

　　Friend3:Ithinkmychildrenmakeupthemeaningofmylife.Itishardtoraisechildrenbutyouwillreceiverewardsfordedicatingenoughtimeandeffort.Oneday,ifyouhavekids,youwillunderstandwhatIjustsaid.

　　Friend4:Mykidsarejustdevilsinmylife...BUT,occasionallythereisthatonemomenttheywillmakeyourememberforalifetime.Yestheyareevilformostofthetimeandidofeelmylifecouldhavebeenalotbetterwithoutthem.Butthatonemomentjustmakesyoufeelthatalltheworkandallthestressforthemaresoworthingit.

　　Me:So,IguessIshouldhavechildrensoonafterget