Confidenceisthekeytosuccess!

　　Iwashavingawordwithoneofmyfriendtodayandduringwholeconversation,Ifeltthathelackedononepointandthatwasselfconfidence.Alltheway,hewascomparinghimselffromthosepeoplewhoweresuccessfulinhisfieldofwork,peoplearoundhim.Andhewasjustkeepinghimself“low”fromthem.

　　Well,it’stheselfconfidencewhichcanmakeandbreakthings.Thisthingappliesinbloggingtoo.Feelconfidentaboutthethingsyoudoanddon’tjustthinkthatbecauseother’saredoingwell,thenyouareanylessthanthem.Youareequallygoodandit’sonlyyouwhocanrealizethatwhereexactlyyouaregood.

　　Herearefewthingswhichyoushouldfollowwhenyouarelosingselfconfidence:

　　1.Stopthinkingthatwhatotherareachieving:Insteadthinkthatwhatismakingthemachievethatsuccessandthenworkonthoseareasandtrytogainthatsamesuccess.

　　2.Thinkonthelines,whereyouarelackingbutdon’tmakethemthehurdleinyoursuccess:Instead,thinkthathowyoucanimproveonthoseweakpoints.Nobodyisperfectandnoonewilleverbe,soifyoudolacksomewhere,youjusthavetothinkthatdoyoureallylackordootheraremakingyoufeelthat.Ifatallyouthinkthatyes,youdolackinaparticulararea,thengoaheadandworkonit.

　　3.Improvetheareaswhereyouhavethemastery:Again,nooneisperfectandthereisalwaysascopeofimprovementandbytalkingtovariouspeopleinthatniche,you’llonlygainknowledgeandwillbeabletoknowmoreinthatfield.Sotalktoyourfellowbloggers,andseehowtheydothingsdifferentlyandhowtheyblog,I’msureyou’lllearnsomethingnewthanwhatyoualreadyknow.

　　4.Teachsomeoneinthatniche:Whenyou’lltalktosomeoneinthatnichewhoisstillnew,thenyou’llbeabletosharethosethingswhichyoualreadyknowandthatwayyourconfidencelevelwillincrease,becauseyou’llrealizethatyouknowmuchmorethanothersandthatwillgiveenormousamountofconfidence.

　　5.Successiswhatyoufeelwithin:Well,itsallaboutsettingthestandards.Everyoneknowswhatheorsheiscapableofbutjustbecauseyougetinfluencedwithsomeone,youstarttofeelthatyouarenotsuccessful.Insteadthinkthatwhatyou’veachievedandstarttofeelgoodaboutit.

　　Againthereisaverythinklinebetweenselfconfidenceandoverconfidence.Feelconfidentaboutthingsyou’veachievedbutdon’tbeoverconfidentanddon’tthinkthatanyoneislessthanyou.Youcan’tknoweachandeverythingbutyoucanbegoodinmanyareasandsharingthingswillonlymakeyoubetter.So,neverfeelthatyouareanylessthananyoneelseandneverletothersthinkthatyouareanylessthanthem.

　　今天我与我的朋友谈话,在整个谈话过程中,我觉得他缺少一点,那就是自信.整个过程中,他都在把自己和他工作领域内的成功人士比较,他周围的那些人.他总是把自己摆在比人家低的位置上.

　　成也自信,败也自信.这个道理也适用于写博客.对自己做的事情觉得自信,不要觉得是其他人做得好,而你不如他们.你和他们一样棒,也只有你才能意识到你真正优秀的地方.

　　这里是一些当你失去自信时你不应该做的事情：

　　1、停止思考其他人的成功：而要思考是什么使他们获得成功,然后在这些方面努力,争取获得同样的成功.

　　2、线性思考你缺乏的东西,但不要让它们成为你成功道路上的阻碍：相反,你该思考如何可以改善这些薄弱环节.没有人是完美的,也没有人会变得完美,所以如果你缺乏某方面的东西,你就要想你是真的缺乏这种东西还是其他人让你这样觉得.如果你觉得你的确在某一方面缺乏,那就开始在这方面努力.

　　3、提高自己的优势所在：再一次,没有人是完美的总是有一个说话的进步,通过在该利基不同的人,你只是在获取知识,也能够知道在这个领域更宽.所以应该告诉你的同胞博客,看看他们如何做不同的事情,以及他们如何博客,我敢肯定你将学到的东西比你知道新的了.

　　4.教别人在这利基：当你将讨论在该利基谁是新人一个人,那么你就可以分享这些事情,你已经知道,这样你的信心水平会增加,因为你会认识到,你知道的比别人多,这将使大量的信心.

　　5.成功是你在感到：哦,