1.EyescanspeakMuchmeaningcanbeconveyed,clearly,withoureyes,soitisoftensaidthateyescanspeak.Doyouhavesuchkindofexperience?Inabusyoumaylookatstranger,butnottoolong.Andifheissensingthatheisbeingstaredat,hemayfeeluncomfortable.Thesameindailylife.Ifyouarelookedatformorethannecessary,youwilllookatyourselfupanddown,toseeifthereisanythingwrongwithyou.Ifnothinggoeswrong,youwillfeelangrytowardother’sstarewithyouthatway.Eyesdospeak,right?Lookingtoolongatsomeonemayseemtoberudeandaggressive.Butthingsaredifferentwhenitcomestostareattheoppositesex.Ifamanglancesatawomanformorethan10secondsandrefusestoaverthisgaze,hisintentionsareobvious,thatis,hewishestoattractherattention,tomakeherunderstandthatheisadmiringher.However,thenormaleyecontactfortwopeopleengagedinconversationisthatthespeakerwillonlylookatthelistenerfromtimetotime,inordertomakesurethatthelistenerdoespayattentiontowhattheformerisspeaking,totellhimthatheisattentive.Ifaspeakerlooksatyoucontinuouslywhenspeaking,asifhetriestodominateyou,youwillfeeldisconcerted.Apoorliarusuallyexposeshimselfbylookingtoolongatthevictim,sincehebelievesinthefalseideathattolookstraightintheeyeisasignofhonestcommunication.Quitethecontrary.Infact,continuouseyecontactisconfinedtoloversonly,whowillenjoylookingateachothertenderlyforalongtime,toshowaffectionthatwordscannotexpress.Evidently,eyecontactshouldbedoneaccordingtotherelationshipbetweentwopeopleandthespecificsituation.我们的眼睛能准确地传达一些信息,所以人们常说,眼睛会说话.你有过类似的体验吗?在公共汽车上,你可能会看着一个陌生人,但时间不会太长.而且,如果他能感觉到有人盯着他,会觉得浑身不自在.日常生活中亦如此.如果别人一直盯着你看,你就会不由自主地审视自己,看看是不是有什么地方弄错了.如果一切正常,你就会对别人的这种盯梢很气愤.眼睛确实能说话,不是吗?过久的盯着别人看会给人一种粗鲁和侵犯的感觉.但异性之间的凝视就不同了.如果一个男人盯着一个女人超过10秒钟,还不想挪开视线的话,他的意思就十分明显了,他想引起她的注意,想让她知道他爱慕她.正常情况下,两人交谈时,目光接触能传达这样的意思：说者偶尔看看听者,以此确认听着是否在认真倾听.而对于听者来说,他会一直看着说话的人,以此告诉他,自己正专心致志的听着.假如与你说话的那个人直直的盯着你,好像要镇住你似的,你便会感到惶恐不安.一般地,说谎者往往就是看别人的时间过长,而令人起疑.因为他们以为直视别人的眼睛是诚实沟通的表现,结果恰恰相反.实际上,长时间的相互凝视仅适合情人之间,他们喜欢温柔的对视,用目光来传达言语无法表达的爱意.显然,目光交流应该根据双方的关系和特定场合来进行.2.thegiftofloveIfIspeakinthetonguesofmortalsandofangels,butdonothavelove,Iamanoisygongoraclangingcymbal.AndifIhavepropheticpowers,andunderstandallmysteriesandallknowledge,andifIhaveallfaith,soastoremovemountains,butdonothavelove,Iamnothing.IfIgiveawayallmypossessions,andifIhandovermybodysothatImayboast,butdonothavelove,Igainnothing.Loveispatient;loveiskind;loveisnotenviousorboastfulorarrogantorrude.Itdoesnotinsistonitsownway;itisnotirritableorresentful;itdoesnotrejoiceinwrongdoing,butrejoicesinthetruth.Itbearsallthings,believesallthings,hopesallthings,enduresallthings.Loveneverends.Butasforprophecies,theywillcometoanend;asfortongues,theywillcease;asforknowledge,itwillcometoanend.Forweknowonlyinpart,andweprophesyonlyinpart;butwhenthecompletecomes,thepartialwillcometoanend.WhenIwasachild,Ithoughtlikeachild;whenIbecameandadult,Iputanendtochildishways.Fornowweseeinmirror,dimly,butthenwewillseefacetoface.NowIknowonlyinpart;thenIwillknowfully,evenasIhavebeenfullyknown.Andnowfaith,hope,andloveabide,thesethree;andthegreatestoftheseislove.就算我能说万人的方言和天使的话语,但如果没有爱,我